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MAMARABBITS FREEBIES ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ SPECIAL THANKS GOES TO KAREN FOR THIS ONE MERRY CHRISTMAS ! http://www.my-tgif.com/Christmasfriend.htm ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ PLEASE TAKE TIME TO VOTE FOR MAMARABBITS FREEBIES...YES, I'VE BEEN GONE BUT, I'M BACK TONIGHT.... PLEASE CLICK TO VOTE...THANKS! http://soprano.com/vote.asp?linkno=342&from=%2Ffreestuff.asp ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ THIS WAS SENT TO ME BY A SWEET FRIEND OF MINE..THANK YOU.. THIS IS SOOOOOOOOOO TOUCHING..PLEASE READ IT! > > THIS IS SO POWERFUL AND A MUST READ FOR MARRIED COUPLES (AN EYE > OPENER) AND FOR THOSE WHO DESIRE TO MARRY. > > > > Be Blessed! > > > > When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand > and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. > Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn't know how to > open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a > divorce. I raised the topic calmly. > > > > She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instea d she asked me > softly, why? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away > the chopsticks and > > shouted at me, you are not a man! That night we didn't talk to each > other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened > to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she > had lost my heart to a lovely girl called Dew. I did not love her > anymore. I just pitied her! > > > > With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated > that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She > glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten > years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her > wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had > said for I loved Dew so dearly. > > > > Fi nally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected > to see. To me, her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of > divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and > clearer now. The next day, I came back home very late and found her > writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight > to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful > day with Dew. > > > > When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did > not care so I turned over and was asleep again. In the morning she > presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but > needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that > one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her > reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she > didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage. This was agreeable > to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had > carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that > everyday for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the > front door every morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make > our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request. > > > > I told Dew about my wife's divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and > thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to > face the divorce, she said scornfully. My wife and I hadn't had any body > contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I > carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son > clapped behind us, "daddy is holding mommy in his arms." His words > brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then > to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed > her eyes and said softly; do not tell our son about the divorce. I > nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She > went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office. > > > > On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my > chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I > hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she > was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair > was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I > wondered what I had done to her. > > > > On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy > returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. > On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was > growing again. I didn't tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry > her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me > stronger. > > > > She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few > dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my > dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so > thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily. Suddenly it > hit me. She had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. > Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head. > > > > Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mom > out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an > essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer > a nd hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I > might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, > walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her > hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; > it was just like our wedding day. But her much lighter weight made me > sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a > step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I had not > noticed that our life lacked intimacy. > > > > I drove to office... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the > door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind... I walked > upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not > want the divorce anymore. She looked at me, astonished. Then touched my > forehead. Do you have a fever? She s aid. I moved her hand off my head. > Sorry, Dew, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring > probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not > because we didn't love each other any more. Now I realize that since I > carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her > until death do us part. Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a > loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked > downstairs and drove away. > > > > At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my > wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and > wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart. > > > > The small details of your lives are what really matter in a > relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the > bank, blah..blah.. bla h. These create an environment conducive for > happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be > your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that > build intimacy. Have a real happy marriage! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ FEW GOOD ONES FROM OUR SAN AND PAT! 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