"I love deadlines. I like the whooshing sound they
make as they fly by." Douglas Adams
Let's talk about the P word. Procrastination. If this is
you, this pervasive, habit effects every aspect of your life.
As a procrastinator you typically under perform, limiting
success and the life you want to live. It dampens your ability
to take action, creates missed opportunities, and is the
single pattern of behavior I see in most entrepreneurs that if
corrected would free up log jams of energy and potential. If
you're a procrastinator you know in your bones that this is
true, yet, it seems like an impossible habit to break.
It's easy to see in others how much unnecessary pain and
stress procrastination causes: my daughter for example,
endlessly putting off school work and pushing herself at the
last minute to meet a deadline, my client, putting off
completing his taxes and suffering the consequence of costly
penalties. I'm sure you could add your own examples of
miserable outcomes you've experienced as a result of putting
things off. So why do you continue to do it?
I've learned that procrastination is not the originating
problem. It's a symptom of something deeper in your personal
operating system, or put another way, a coping mechanism you
developed to compensate for an area of lack. The bottom line
is you procrastinate to protect yourself from feeling
something you don't want to feel.
Although there are many valuable strategies out there for
overcoming procrastination, if you don't get at the root of
what causes you to procrastinate, I believe you won't ever
change the pattern. There are many theories about what causes
procrastination: anxiety, fear of failure (or success)
rebelliousness, or chafing at authority perfectionism, poor
work habits, self-sabotage to name the biggies. But
interestingly enough, according to research what seems to be
at the bottom of the procrastination pit is low self
confidence and a low need for achievement.
Curiously, those two personality traits seem to run counter
to the common characteristics most entrepreneurs exhibit. So
then, why do entrepreneurs procrastinate? There in lies the
conundrum and the hope.
As an entrepreneur, you're human - with all the associated
strengths and weaknesses. Although you have boldly accepted
the role and risks of building a business and you're
passionate about bringing your dream to market, it's very easy
to overlook your limitations. Here's my invitation to you: Ask
the fearless, passion-filled part of yourself who's learned to
push the limits of your comfort zone every day to explore the
parts of yourself that need personal development. Get to the
bottom of what limits your confidence, in other words, dare to
ask, "Who would I be without my tired, small story about
myself?
I was recently working with a bright and talented artist
who is holding herself back from blasting her business to the
next level. She's worried that her product won't be received
well and procrastinates taking critical sales action. When I
asked her if she had evidence of product rejection she said
she didn't, and in fact her dramatically increasing sales
prove the opposite. When I pointed out the obvious discrepancy
in her reasoning, her jaw dropped. She got it - and now
understands that her work lies in addressing her nagging
confidence issues. She's learning to draw upon her current
successes to disqualify the voices of the past. This frees her
up to stop procrastinating, take powerful action, and soar!
Ending your procrastination pattern is possible if you're
willing to apply energy to what you want to ignore. By
exploring what you fear, or what you resist you will overcome
it with self-awareness and then can replace your old thinking
with current reality. You might need to ask for help.
Reinforce your new awareness by taking small steps and
acknowledging yourself every time you have a success. Also,
regularly remind yourself of why you want to accomplish your
task. Set small achievable goals using inspiration to pull you
along into action - finally, beyond procrastination.
I'm reminded of the Marianne Williamson quote where she so
aptly states, as if she was thinking about the problem of
procrastination when she wrote it, "Our deepest fear is
not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are
powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness
that most frightens us..."
Start right now. Be powerful beyond measure. And please,
resist the temptation to "do it later". Go grab a
flashlight and begin to shed light on what's at the bottom of
your procrastination pattern. How might it feel to see
yourself as an accomplisher rather than a procrastinator?
Build that business, do the dishes, live your dream.
It's YOUR life...imagine the possibilities!