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By Bob Perks
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Bob and Marianne
 
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Today's Message:
"Just one more time"
By Bob Perks

"Damp, musty and well-worn."  It certainly wouldn't catch your attention in a travel brochure. 

"No indoor plumbing.  Hand pump for water located in back of the building."

No, that wouldn't make me want to stay there either.

"Out house conveniently located in front of or directly behind your rental."

What?  No way!

So why do I long to return to those places of my youth?

The old worn out couches were like giant pillows barely framed in faded mahogany, oak or pine.  The kitchen table was held up by scratched and dented steel legs.  The top surface was etched a hundred times by those before us.  The red and white vinyl covered chairs would stick to my legs on a hot summer day.

Still, one more meal there would be a blessing.

There were no televisions.  There were no radios unless you brought one of your own.  That meant you needed to entertain yourself for the week you were there.

"Under the "N" the free spot!" my uncle Al would call out each evening.  Yes, we played Bingo.  It had such an impact on me that I still own an old Bingo game set to this very day.

The few beds that were available in any of these classic vacation spots held lumpy, torn, mattresses with a few questionable stains.  But they were covered with our own bed linens freshly washed and folded by my mother.

Of course, I never had the pleasure of actually sleeping on one of those dinosaurs.  My grandparents and other older adults held that great privilege.

The rest of us slept on couches, chairs and yes the floor.

It was routine to discover my Grandmother standing over me in the middle of the night.  Her thoughts and mental health often caused her to get up several times during the night.  She carried a flashlight as she wandered through the cottage.   Early on in my childhood I would awaken frightened and shaking under the covers each time I saw this "ghost" wandering around.  As years went by, I would wake up and say "Hello, Grandma!  I love you!"  I think it gave her pleasure and somewhat of a reality check to know she was somewhere she belonged.

Our days were spent at Sandy Beach and some of the most satisfying, delicious meals shared on old weather-worn picnic tables nestled under the pines.

I floated for hours on end in the lake.  I had no fancy blown up vinyl rafts, just a simple inner tube from an old tire.  My Dad was a mechanic.

A few times a week we would head to Hanson's Park, which was located right on the lake.  My first roller coaster ride was with my Uncle Al.  I couldn't speak for hours afterwards.  By today's ride standards that coaster would be a kiddie ride.  But in the eyes of an 7 year old in 1957, it was the scariest ride on earth.

I really can't remember what I did all day long back at the rented cottage, but I managed to keep myself busy and very happy.  I had no video games, no electronic toys.  I had my imagination, which now as I think back, may have been the foundation for what I do today.

This was vacation.  We traveled almost 12 miles to get there.  That's right about 12 miles.  I lived in Kingston we vacationed at Harvey's Lake. It was the best we could do.  It was the most my family could afford. 

I'm 55 now and I've traveled to some of the most remarkable places.  I have stayed in some of the most luxurious hotels.  I've eaten some of the best meals in the world.

But I'd give almost anything for one more night, one more picnic, one more roller coaster ride, one more trip to the outhouse..."just one more time!"   

"I believe in You!"
Bob Perks
Bob@BobPerks.com
 
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Your Comments...  If you would like to share brief comment about today's message, please write to Bob@BobPerks.com  I will use only first names and no email addresses.
RE: "The Best I ever had!"
 
Bob,
You are SUCH a wonderful man!  What a great story. Cynthia
 
Bob,
I couldn't help but reflect...as the tears rolled...on the thought of you sharing what some might call a 'poor man's meal' with this dear lady.  The gift of TIME!!!  Yes, I would say you 'Communed with God'.   As my minister stated a while back...a phrase that has 'stuck' in my head...We don't 'TAKE TIME TO TAKE TIME' nearly enough.  Thanks for giving this dear soul your time and allowing her to reminisce a while...something she obviously needed to do.
And yes, 'meatloaf' is a favorite of mine too...and bring on the 'cold sandwiches' with light mayo.
You and Marianne are on my mind and in my prayers often.
God Bless,
Jo Ann S.
 
 
Dear Bob,
 I loved the story about the meatloaf. It really inspired me. It does not matter what you have it is the sharing that counts. It is like sitting down to a meal with Jesus ands I know that one day I will set at his feet while he fills mw with his love and care for me and others.
Thank you Bob.
Darlene
 
 
Bob,
   How fortunate for you and your family to have been able to go the American Idol concert.  I'm sure it was great.  I, also, voted a lot for Carrie that last night...I marked it on a paper as I made the calls...175 times.  Imagine the people that spent the last few hours of that night casting their vote....quite interesting!
   The story today was "great" as usual....that woman, I'm sure, realizes how fortunate she was to have you share lunch with her...and what a great feeling for you.  God Bless you always...all ways!
Gail
Massachusetts
 
Bob,
You know, I guess everything is relative!  Just depends on your point of view!  My brother and I were talking a short time after our mother's passing about 4 years ago.  He remembers that she wasn't much of a cook.  I remember that we ate really tasty food and some things are my favorite "comfort" foods to this day.  Of course, she had her own versions of Italian food, Mexican food, Chinese food, that bore no real relationship to the real things.  But they were good!  I commented to him that my favorite meal was when she would slice canned corned beef hash into rounds and fry it up and we would have cabbage and fried cornbread with it.  This was usually a winter meal and I could remember coming into the kitchen from another part of the house, drawn by the smell of my favorite combination.  My brother commented that, although he enjoyed that particular meal as well, our mother made the meal first as a "depression" meal.  I had no idea!  He was born in 1938 and I  in 1944, so neither of us actually had any real recollection of the depression years.  Both of our parents, however, had struggled through them, stretching their few dollars and ration coupons and meals.  We continued in our conversation and discovered that a lot of our favorites started as depression recipes.  Meatloaf was definitely one of those!  Thanks for the memories! Susan
 
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"I wish you enough!"
Bob
 
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"I wish you enough!"
written by Bob Perks (c) 2001
 
"I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright.
I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun more.
I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive.
I wish you enough pain so that the smallest joys in life appear much bigger.
I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.
I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.
I wish you enough "Hello's" to get you through the final "Goodbye."








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