"I Believe in You!" Archives Index | Subscribe | RSS
<< November11, 2005 - "Educating the Soul" November18, 2005 - "Our time in the Sun" >>

Subject: "On the Ball" - November16, 2005



"I Believe in You!"
A message of Hope, stories from the road.
By Bob Perks
*************************************************
Hello, my friend!
 
Oh boy! Oh boy!  This life's a joy!
 
Want some of that enthusiasm?  Only you can make up your mind to feel that way.  Only you can see the best in everything.  No one makes your day bad without your permission.
 
It is your day.  They have their own.
 
Choose how you'll live it.
 
"I believe in you!"
Bob
 
*************************************************
 
Perks Pearl of Wisdom
"Happy is more than a state of mind.  It's a choice."  Bob Perks
 
*************************************************
 
"Wishes" Gift Store 
Tapes, Books, Greeting Cards, Wall prints, Mugs, T-shirts
 
Buying products helps keep these messages
F R E E
*****************************************************
 
Join me in partnership in 
"My Ministry of the Heart":
 
Here are three ways you can help:
 
 
  
*****************************************************
All stories copyright 2005 Bob Perks
Today's Message:
"On the Ball"
By Bob Perks
 
He's focused.  I mean really focused.  His eye is on the ball and nothing will distract him.
 
My dog, Ricky is a master motivator for me.  He loves playing ball.  You can throw it a hundred times and a hundred times he'll go get it. 
 
Every evening before we go to bed Ricky will run up the stairs ahead, turn around and place the ball on the top step.
 
"Push it!" I shout and with his right foot, Ricky pushes the ball down the steps.  I catch it and throw it back up to him.  Nine times out of ten he'll catch it.  Nine times out of ten I'll miss it.  He then repeats the whole thing usually until I am too tired to continue.  I will then toss it high enough to get it past him.
 
He will do the same thing if you are just sitting in a chair.  Ricky will get just far enough away so that you can't reach for the ball.  He picks it up, places it in front of him and pushes it to you.
 
But here's what motivates me.  He never stops looking at the ball.  I can call his name, make noises,  try desperately to distract him and he will not take his eyes off the ball.
 
I zig-zag my foot pretending to kick it one direction and then follow up by kicking it another.  I rarely get it past him.
 
If he misses it, he barks at it as he chases after it.  Like it was the ball's fault.
 
His whole purpose, all that he wants, all that he enjoys is in that ball, so nothing will cause him to be distracted.
 
He inspires me.  His dedication, his focus, his determination and will to keep on playing screams volumes to me.
 
"Why can't I be that focused?" I ask myself.
 
"Why can't I be that determined?" I follow.
 
 Oh, you might be quick to point out that being too focused is not good.  One needs distraction to ease the mind.
 
He's a dog.  He sleeps, eats and plays.
 
I'm a human.  I sleep, eat and work.  Oh, yes, I eat more than he does.  I play, but a lot less than he does and not for long periods of time any more. 
 
I'm getting to be an old dog.
 
Still, Ricky does have his times when I roll a ball across the floor in front of him and he watches it pass by.  He doesn't move a muscle.  That old pup is too pooped sometimes, too.
 
But he chooses to be. 
 
He is sleeping in the other room right now.  If I went in there with a ball he would jump up and without thinking, chase after it.  He doesn't have to stretch first, moan a bit and get his shoes on.  He doesn't have to find his glasses so he can see the ball.  He doesn't start by saying, "Okay, give me a minute to wake up." 
 
Afterwards he won't complain about all the running and jumping.  He won't go to the medicine cabinet and look for some pain relievers.
 
And at the end of the day, he won't say,  "Boy, I'm going to regret that in the morning."
 
Not Ricky.  He inspires me.  He's "on the ball!"  
 
"I believe in You!"
Bob Perks
Bob@BobPerks.com
 
I encourage you to share my stories with your friends but, when copying I ask that you keep my name and contact information attached so that new readers can find their way here. Use of this story for commercial use is prohibited without direct permission from the author.
 
***********************************************
 
May I Suggest...
 
Visit my photo album:
http://www.bobperks.com/Gallery
 
Read recent messages:
http://archives.zinester.com/41026
*************************************************
 
Your Comments...  If you would like to share brief comment about today's message, please write to Bob@BobPerks.com  I will use only first names and no email addresses.
 
 
**************************************************
 
"I wish you enough!"
Bob
 
Bob Perks is a professional speaker, author and vocalist. 
Member National Speakers Association.
Visit http://www.BobPerks.com
 
Visit Bob's story site: http://www.IWishYouEnough.com
Sign up to receive Bob's free stories sent three times weekly.
 
"I wish you enough!"
written by Bob Perks (c) 2001
 
"I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright.
I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun more.
I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive.
I wish you enough pain so that the smallest joys in life appear much bigger.
I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.
I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.
I wish you enough "Hello's" to get you through the final "Goodbye."








<< November11, 2005 - "Educating the Soul" November18, 2005 - "Our time in the Sun" >>
"I Believe in You!" Archives Index | Subscribe | RSS
Google
 
Web http://archives.zinester.com
Archives powered by Zinester's Mailing List Service
Details on "I Believe in You!"
Browse for more newsletters at Zinester's Ezine Directory
Managed by Zinester's Mailing List Management