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"I Believe in You!"
A message of Hope, stories from the road.
By Bob Perks
 
Celebrating 8 years of writing...
      May 1, 1998-May 1, 2006
more than 1,000 stories...for
millions of "friends I've never met."
 
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Hello, my friend!
 
I do hope you had a wonderful weekend!
 
This is a great week to begin that new project.
What project?
You!  A great week to make the changes you've been
talking about for years!
 
Start right now!
"I believe in you!"
 
Bob and Marianne
 
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Today's Message:
"Crooked little smile"
By Bob Perks

He was struggling to tie his shoes. I was struggling with whether I
should help him.

I did. He was embarrassed, but grateful.

"I really appreciate your help," he said quietly. Never looking
directly at me, I thought perhaps he was uncomfortable with needing the
help.

"It was nothing. I just thought it would be easier for me to reach it,"
I said. "You looked a little frustrated."

"I guess you could say I was a little bent out of shape over it," he
said.

I didn't know whether to laugh or not. He was crippled by something.
His arms and legs were twisted terribly and his coordination to do what
I would consider an easy task, lacked desperately.

I have met many people with "different abilities" who use humor openly
as a way to ease the difficulty some people have with dealing with them.


I smiled and said, "I'm glad I could help."

He was an older gentlemen, thinly built, white hair and the most
incredible smile. His clothing was perfectly matched, very up to date
and because of his condition, a little larger than they normally should
be. I believe it was more comfortable and easier to manage in a larger
size.

His spinal curvature was so bad that he was forced to look down most of
the time. Except when he made a wise crack. He always managed to steal
a glance looking up to see how you reacted to his comments. I believe
he enjoyed doing that to people.

Still kneeling by his wheel chair, I felt comfortable there.

There was an awkward silence as we both waited for the other to continue
the conversation. I waited because I wasn't sure he wanted to talk.

"Nice sneakers," he said.

"Thanks, no one ever complimented me on my sneakers before," I said.

"No one has the view of the world I do," he replied.

I laughed this time.

"So, tell me about the world as you see it," I said.

"Well, I can tell if someone is comfortable speaking with me or not.
Most people can see it in another's eyes.
I see it in their feet," he said.

"How can you tell by their feet?" I asked.

"People who are nervous keep fidgeting around, moving their feet,
wiggling their toes. If they are impatient with me I see them tapping
their foot. So I just let them go. I don't want to make people
uncomfortable," he said.

"What about me? Was I uncomfortable?" I asked.

"No. I could see your compassion in your eyes. You see, you came down
to my level. I was the one who was nervous," he said.

"Why?" I asked.

"I don't normally have someone looking in my eyes. Even my friends stand
or sit when they speak to me," he said with a sigh.

"They have no idea what they are missing," I told him.

"This old crooked face of mine is nothing to brag about," he said.

"But that smile. That smile is so big, I can't see anything else," I told him.

"Ah yes, my smile. I painted it on there just for me. Even though most
people don't see it, it reminds me that things aren't as bad as they
seem," he said.

"That's quite an attitude, my friend," I said.

"Well, I'm your friend now am I?" he asked.

"Yes, I consider everyone a friend until they prove me otherwise. Many
have. I'd rather treat someone as a friend and keep them as one, then
to treat them as a stranger and they remain so," I told him.

He smiled.

"Well, as I always say, "Things are always looking up in my life," he
said.

There was a pause and we both started laughing.

"Hey, now I can sing that country song by Garth Brooks", I said.

He took a deep breath and asked, "Okay, I'll bite. What country song?"

I sang to him..."I've got friends in low places."

We both laughed until we had tears in our eyes. I don't know about him,
mine were because he was such a blessing to me today.

From the famous childhood nursery rhyme:
"There Was a Crooked Man"

There was a crooked man
Who walked a crooked mile
He found a crooked sixpence
Against a crooked stile
He had a crooked cat
Who caught a crooked mouse
And they all lived together
In a little crooked house

(I add these lines to that famous rhyme)

But then this crooked man
wore a crooked smile
that made me aware
he was happy all the while
This crooked little man
stood taller then the rest
He took what life had given him
and in return gave his best.

"I believe in You!"
Bob Perks
Bob@BobPerks.com
 
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attached so that new readers can find their way here. Use of this
story for commercial use is prohibited without direct permission
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"I wish you enough!"
Bob
 
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"I wish you enough!"
written by Bob Perks (c) 2001
 
"I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright.
I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun more.
I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive.
I wish you enough pain so that the smallest joys in life appear much bigger.
I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.
I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.
I wish you enough "Hello's" to get you through the final "Goodbye."








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