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Dear Friends, May this find you all well and happy. This is your personal issue of Clarity. You are receiving Clarity for the third time as a html ezine from a web based server. Be sure to add the address @zinester.com to your address book, so that your email account will not filter it out. Our Life Coach Training starts October 17th. You can now view video clips with Robert on Youtube at: http://www.holisticharmony.com/youtube/index.asp or http://www.youtube.com/robertenajemy You will find subscription and removal procedures at the end of the email. Share this issue with someone who might benefit from it. 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000 Announcing Our Next Holistic Harmony Life Coach Training - Stage I. Starting October 17th 2007 Find all the details at: http://HolisticHarmony.com/introholisticcoach.asp 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000 Testimonial by trainees: This Stage I of the Holisticharmony Coach Training course has been a phenomenal introductory way to investigate myself. It is gentle and non-intrusive in that I do the reading and respond to exercises at my own pace yet the result of participating has liberated me from HUGE traumatic experiences. The gentle nudge from the coordinators and the wise words of encouragement have helped me to go beyond spaces that I always felt I would never manage to access and heal. I am in a very liberated frame of being, thanks to this gift. Thank You Robert and your team of helpers for the work that you do with such devotion and deep love. Surely the cyberspace has had some awesome benefit if one considers that this course is delivered so effectively online and produces such REAL and TANGIBLE results in my life. I am glad that I listened to my inner voice that urged me to join this course. Lawrence (Cape Town: South Africa) 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000 When I signed up for the LIfe coaching course, I saw it as a course to refresh counselling qualifications gained in the 1990s and as a step towards working as a counsellor. When I finished the course, I saw it as a personal journey that made me confront some of my own deep-seated fears and commit to ongoing change in these areas. Perhaps more importantly, I began to appreciate what I already have that makes me uniquely 'me'. The in-depth knowledge gained about how beliefs originate and influence emotions and actions was more in-depth than any practical training I had received in previous counsellor training. As a result, I am now more confident about gradually moving into working as a life coach. I would recommend this course to anyone wishing to embark on an inquiry into themselves as the basis for developing new directions in their life. Frances Todd Brisbane, Australia 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000 View video clips of Robert on YouTube. 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000 You can now view many video clips from Robert's self-knowledge seminar, which has helped many thousands of people. You can now enjoy many parts of it at: http://www.holisticharmony.com/youtube/index.asp or http://www.youtube.com/robertenajemy If you find these video clips beneficial, you can do the following. 1. Go to http://www.youtube.com/robertenajemy and sign up so that you are informed of each new clip as it is uploaded. 2. Rate and comment on these clips on youtube so that others will be encouraged to view them. 3. Share them with friends. Here are some of the titles 1. Releasing Emotions - Simple Techniques 2. Positive Emotions 3. Understanding Others. 4. Channeling Emotions 5. Roles we Play 6. Accusations or I-Messages 7. Mature Truthful Communication 8. Freedom from Interrogators and Intimidators 9. Freedom from Victims and Aloofs 10. 5th Insight of the Celestine Prophecy - Peak Experiences 11. 6th and 7th Insight of the Celestine Prophecy - Clearing the Past / Our Life Question 12. 8th Insight of the Celestine Prophecy - Our Group Energy 13. 9th Insight of the Celestine Prophecy - Vision of a Perfect Society 14. Overcoming Fear No. 1 - Gradual and Mental Contact 15. Overcoming Fear No. 2 - Regressions to the Source 16. Overcoming Fear No. 3 - Objectifying the Fear 17. Overcoming Fear No. 4 - Keeping High energy, Studying the Truth, Growth Groups, Perfect Love 18. Overcoming Fear No. 5 - Faith and Wisdom 19. Life Lessons No. 1 - Exactly What We Need 20. Life Lessons No. 2 - How we Create Our Reality 21. Life Lessons No. 3 - Possible Lessons 22. Life Lessons No. 4 - We Cannot Create Others' Reality 23. Life Lessons No. 5 - We are Souls in Evolution 24. Life Lessons No. 6 - Self-acceptance 25. Healing the Inner Child no. 1 ? Feeling safe and sure 26. Healing the Inner Child no. 2 ? Feeling capable and worthy 27. Healing the Inner Child no. 3 ? Who is responsible? 28. Healing the Inner Child no. 4 ? Getting Free 29. Levels of Love No. 1 - Levels 1 & 2 30. Levels of Love No. 2 - Level 3 31. Levels of Love No. 3 - Levels 4 & 5 32. Levels of Love No. 4 - Level 6 33. Levels of Love No. 5 - Level 7 34. Levels of Love No. 6 - When do we lose our love? No. 1 35. Levels of Love No. 7 - When do we lose our love? No. 2 36. Opening to Love No. 1 - Our Need to Love 37. Opening to Love No. 2 - Overcoming Fear and Guilt 38. Opening to Love No. 3 - Removing Obstacles to Love 39. Opening to Love No. 4 - The Love Focus 40. Opening to Love No. 5 - Love Letters 41. Opening to Love No. 6 - Forgiving Others and Ourselves 42. Opening to Love No. 7 - Truths that free our Love 43. Opening to Love No. 8 - Clarity about responsibility 44. Opening to Love No. 9 - Family and Community 45. Self-acceptancce no. 1 Consequesnces of a lack of self-acceptance 46. Self-acceptancce no. 2 Conditions we place on our self-worth 47. Self-acceptancce no. 3 Dealing with Criticism 48. Self-acceptancce no. 4 Overcoming Guilt and Shame 49. Self-acceptancce no. 5 Efforts, Results and Self-worth 50. Self-acceptancce no. 6 Truths about our self-worth 51. Self-acceptancce no. 7 Clarity about our self-worth 52. Creating Harmonious Relationships no. 1 Obstacles to harmony 53. Creating Harmonious Relationships no. 2 What we can do. 54. Creating Harmonious Relationships no. 3 Confronting our Ego 55. Creating Harmonious Relationships no. 4 Need Conflicts 56. Creating Harmonious Relationships no. 5 Relationships as a Spiritual Path 57. Creating Harmonious Relationships no. 6 -Twelve Commitments 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000 Your Bananas 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000 From the book "Contemporary Parables" by Robert Elias Najemy Here is how they catch monkeys in India and South America. They tie a narrow neck bottle to a tree. In the bottle they place a banana. The monkey passes by, perceives the banana and very smartly manages to squeeze his hand into the bottle and slips his fingers around the banana in the larger inner area of the bottle. Now it tries to pull its hand out in order to eat the banana, but it won't come out because its hand, which is now holding the banana and is in the form of a fist, cannot pass through the neck of the bottle. It pulls and pulls, but cannot get its hand out. It sees the trapper approaching it and tries to get away, but cannot, because its hand is wrapped around the banana and thus unable to be removed from the bottle. Although it is obviously going to suffer under the hands of trapper, and although the bottle and the banana are the cause of its demise, it never thinks of letting go of the banana so that it can extract its hand and be free. It is literally attached to the banana, and the banana, which was previously a potential source of happiness, has become a source of his suffering. We are all like those monkeys. We have a variety of "bananas" in our lives to which we are attached, and although they create much suffering for us, we cannot let go of them. Some are physical or material attachments such as cigarettes, coffee, tranquilizers, alcohol, denatured foods, money or material possessions. Not that these are inherently bad, but they might be in some cases ruining our health or happiness. And, although we are aware of this, we are unable to get free from them, because we are attached to them. Our attachments may also be emotional, such as acceptance, approval or love from specific persons or from all persons. Or we might be attached to professional success, or recognition, or to having things done the way we believe that they "should" be done, or to being the smartest or prettiest, or to having perfect order and cleanliness. None of these are wrong or bad, but our attachment to them just might be creating suffering for us at this time, because we are not able to have what we are attached to. When we are attached in this way, we have two choices. We can suffer because we cannot get the banana out of the bottle and, thus, get trapped in vicious circle of suffering and unhappiness. Or, we can let our attachment become a preference for the "banana" and let go of it when we see that we are only creating unhappiness for ourselves (and probably for others), and thus we can all stop suffering. It often happens that we get so caught up in trying to force that specific banana out of a specific bottle, that we are blind to the fact that there are hundreds of bananas lying all around that bottle free for our taking, if we could just master up the intelligence to let go of the one, which we are trying to force life into giving us. A good example of that is when we become attached to acceptance, approval or love from specific persons such as a parent, spouse, lover, friend or child. When we cannot get the affirmation of those feelings from them, we feel hurt and angry and try to force them in various ways to give us the recognition we are looking for. In our obsession for recognition from these specific persons, we loose sight of the fact that we have love, acceptance and approval from so many other persons. We are so focused on what we cannot get, that we are blind to what is offered so abundantly to us from other sources. Are you aware of your bananas? Are you aware that you are creating your own suffering, because you refuse to let go of them? What do you want to do about it? What do you plan to do about it? 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000 Podcasts by Robert Podcasts by Robert Najemy with complimentary lectures and relaxation techniques are now available for you on the internet. Some of the titles now available for your use are: · Introduction · The Importance of self-acceptance · Positive Projection for Self-Acceptance · Celestine Prophecy No. 1 · Roles we Play · Guided Light Self-healing Technique · Dealing with People's Negativity You can listen to on your computer or download and make them into a CD or place them on your ipod and benefit from them where ever you are. 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Free audio files for dealing with pain. http://www.HolisticHarmony.com/healing/index.asp 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000 CLARITY The Psychology of Happiness Concepts for a Happier more Harmonious life Published every 7th and 21st of the month October 7th, 2007 Circulation 3000 Issue # 135 All articles are by Robert Elias Najemy, unless stated otherwise Forward or Print and share this with those who will benefit. To subscribe visit us at http://www.HolisticHarmony.com and subscribe: Or use the following addresses: Subscription Email: 41848-subscribe@zinester.com Subscription URL: http://www.zinester.com/cgi/gsps.cgi?from=na_sub&topic=41848 Unsubscription Email: 41848-unsubscribe@zinester.com Unsubscription URL: http://www.zinester.com/cgi/gsps.cgi?from=na_unsub&topic=41848 If you have any problem subscribing or unsubscribing, let us know at ren@holisticharmony.com May you be well and happy |
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