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SUCCESS BEYOND BELIEF! 6.15.07 © 2007 Brad Yates, C.Ht. www.bradyates.net Success Beyond Belief is a free monthly newsletter designed to support you in enhancing the quality of your life. You deserve an abundance of health, wealth and happiness! I hope you enjoy this edition of Success Beyond Belief. If you know someone whom you think would also enjoy it and find it of benefit, please forward it on – thanks! (Note: You are welcome to forward or otherwise use any portion of this newsletter, provided you include the copyright information. Thank you.) If someone has forwarded this to you - welcome! To find out about getting your own subscription (and the gifts that come with it), please go to www.bradyates.net/welcome.html. Also, I appreciate your feedback. Please send any comments to: brad@bradyates.net. In this issue: I. Article: The Mind Doesn’t Hear Negatives…? II. News and Information III. Must-See Links and Stuff IV. Tapping Transcription: The Need for Chaos V. Closing Quotation -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I. Article: The Mind Doesn’t Hear Negatives…? If you’ve been around the self-help material for any length of time, you’ve no doubt heard this at least once… The unconscious mind doesn’t hear negatives. Or any of the variables, such as it doesn’t recognize negatives, doesn’t understand negatives, etc. – but you get the point. And, admittedly, I have made this assertion on many occasions in the past as well. The unconscious mind doesn’t hear negatives. But as I have thought about it, I have to ask… Really…? This advice is usually given in terms of goal setting, because so many people will set goals based on what they don’t want. Ask them what they want, and they will respond: “Well, I don’t want to be poor anymore.” “I want a person who doesn’t smoke.” “I want a person who isn’t like my ex.” Any coach or self-help guru will point out that the Universe is going to ignore the negative, and move in your direction that thing that you are focusing on – i.e. poverty, folks who smoke, and partners who are…well, whatever you decided you didn’t like about the last one you were with. The mind responds to what is being focused on. But, (and I’m going against conventional thinking here) the mind does not simply negate the negative. Exercise: Spend about five minutes saying, “I am not wonderful!” Okay – unless you are tapping, don’t really do that. Hopefully just reading the suggestion you thought, “I don’t want to do that!” Why not? If the unconscious mind doesn’t hear negatives, wouldn’t you be filled with a great feeling as the mind simply picks up the words “I am wonderful”…? Couldn’t we authentically experience joy by walking around proclaiming, “I’m not happy, and I don’t want to be happy”…? Do children find themselves happily consuming vegetables as their unconscious flips their statement, “I don’t like broccoli!”…? No. The unconscious mind is not simply hard of hearing. The problem with negative desire statements is not that the mind can’t hear or understand the negation, but that it is looking for a feeling to focus on, and so builds with the material it is given. The reason “I’m not happy” doesn’t turn into “I’m happy” is because the mind understands the lack of happiness – it is a feeling it knows well – and it finds the opposite. But what feeling comes from the lack of smoking? Just talking about smoking brings up the unwanted feeling – there isn’t a clear opposite that is triggered. The mind doesn’t so easily put it together that, “If this guy doesn’t smoke, he must then be committed to his own physical health, and takes care of himself, and will likely take care of me, and that feels very good!” Because that isn’t an automatic conclusion. Same with the question of wealth or a partner’s qualities. Speaking of what isn’t wanted only brings up the negative feelings that the mind can easily identify – it is not naturally inclined to go looking for the feeling that is desired. It is great advice to create desire statements that don’t contain negatives, but not because the mind simply can’t understand the negatives. Ask something about the qualities they truly love about anything or anyone, and you are unlikely to get a string of, “Well, it isn’t this… he/she isn’t that…he/she doesn’t do this…” Recognizing what you don’t want can be a great start, but in creating powerful desire statements, you need to then figure out what you do want in the absence of the unwanted traits. You need to discover what would easily inspire good feelings in you – because it is the good feeling you are ultimately looking for. If you aren’t clear on what kind of partner you do want, and only say that you don’t want a partner who smokes, you might just as well leave out the partner as the cigarettes. Ask yourself, “What do I really want? What do I believe would feel really good?” Or you could try asking, “What do I really not want?” - since the mind is just a simple tool that can’t recognize negatives. Not! And despite how this article comes across, I am not really meaning to criticize the “conventional wisdom,” but to encourage you to be clear about what you are doing and why, rather than accepting that this is just the way it is. It is simply accepting rules in this way that got most of us in trouble in the first place…! You deserve the experience you want – focus on what you believe it might be, and be open to the fact that the Universe may have something even better in mind. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- News and Information ANNOUNCING THE MANIFEST-STATION!!! We joyously announce to you the unfolding of The Manifest-Station, a Law of Attraction created Internet TV channel, 100% dedicated to spiritual growth, prosperity consciousness, enlightened wisdom, inner healing, and Universal laws and teachings. Your viewing experience is enriched by programming including teachers such as: ‘Conversations with God’ author Neale Donald Walsch ‘Disappearance of the Universe’ author Gary Renard ‘Mind Power’ author John Kehoe ‘The Celestine Prophecy’ author James Redfield Teachers from ‘The Secret’ such as Bob Doyle, Dr. Joe Vitale, Dr. John Demartini, Mike Dooley, and James Arthur Ray, plus many, many more and growing daily. Including yours truly… :) www.TheManifest-Station.com ******************************* FREEDOM AT YOUR FINGERTIPS A huge THANK YOU to all of you who purchased “Freedom at Your Fingertips” - you took it to #4 on Amazon!!! If you haven’t gotten it yet, please visit: http://www.profcs.com/app/?af=390113 There are gifts and prizes! ******************************* ENHANCE YOUR ABUNDANCE! Sarah Morland of the UK sent me this nice note the other day… “MBB is one of the best, most effective courses I've ever taken. After doing the first two audio sessions I found my brain ready to give up a lifetime of negative memories about money and spent almost 90 minutes writing them down and connecting them with my current negative money beliefs. It was like the floodgates opened. I wrote about on my blog.” And, she wrote about it in her blog before she even knew she could earn a commission as an affiliate (we’ve fixed that.) If you have a website, blog or newsletter and would like to let folks know about this powerful work, I’d be delighted for you to make money doing so! It’s a win-win-win situation. Ask me about it, or go here: http://www.bradyates.net/page46.html ******************************* OTHER STUFF… There are resources aplenty at my site – all kinds of virtual stocking stuffers - eTappings, iTappings, eBooks, teleclasses and info on working with me individually. Visit: www.bradyates.net/welcome.html And… www.theplottosavetheworld.com www.moneybeyondbelief.com www.salesbeyondbelief.com/page3.html www.golfbeyondbelief.com ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Must-See Links and Stuff LIGHTNING FAST RESULTS! My Friend Amy Grant (that’s Amy Scott Grant – the Uber-Coach – not Amy Grant the Uber-Singer) has created a fantastic program using a clearing tool called Q-Word, developed by Colette Streicher. It’s a powerful process, and one I sometimes use in place of EFT. I’m really enjoying this program, and encourage you to check it out: http://www.kickstartcart.com/app/?Clk=1996813 ******************************* GREAT RESOURCES!!! I have recently come across two great newsletters – both of which you can receive at no charge. The most important thing for a happy, healthy and wealthy life is maintaining a healthy mental diet, and these both offer good stuff for your mind – check them out. Tamara Baruhovich has put together a newsletter that will feature insightful articles, thought provoking information, inspirational quotes and many more resources that you can put to use right away to help you enrich every aspect of your life. This newsletter is packed with up-to-date information to help you achieve your maximum potential. Check it out to keep you moving in the right direction. http://www.Abundance4Me.net "Throughout all history the great wise men and teachers, philosophers and prophets have disagreed with one another on many different things. It's only on this ONE POINT that they are in COMPLETE and UNANIMOUS agreement!" Would you like to Learn How to Apply the Most Powerful Law in the Universe? Would you like to put the Law of Attraction to work FOR you intentionally? For a FREE 5 Part Mini-Course on the Law of Attraction go to: http://www.LawofAttractionRevealed.com ******************************* ARE YOU GETTING “MESSAGES FROM THE UNIVERSE”…? My buddy (and “Secret” star) Mike Dooley offers Totally Unique Thoughts (TUT) that I love receiving each morning. And they, too, are free. Sign up here: http://www.tut.com/?a_aid=7c443f01 ******************************* SPEAKING OF BOB DOYLE… If you are not already familiar with perhaps the greatest Law of Attraction site on the internet, Wealth Beyond Reason, check it out here: http://tinyurl.com/z3h5m ******************************* HOW TO MAKE DONATIONS FOR FR.EE There are some sites where you can simply click a link, and a sponsor will make a donation on your behalf – it is a simple way to support some worthy causes. For a couple of years now, I’ve had these sites as my homepage, so that I click first thing each day. They also have some cool products, like the “Cultivate Peace” wristband I wear, which provide an opportunity for additional contribution. I’ve been told the Animal Rescue Site is having trouble getting enough people to click on it daily to meet their quota of getting free food donated every day to abused and neglected animals. It takes less than a minute to go to their site and click on the purple box "fund food for animals" for free. Again, this doesn't cost you a thing. Their corporate sponsors/advertisers use the number of daily visits to donate food to abandoned/neglected animals in exchange for advertising. Here's the web site! Click on the site below and then click on the purple box. Then please also click on the links for the other charitable organizations. And pass it along to people you know. http://www.theanimalrescuesite.com Thank you! ******************************* OPPORTUNITY ON NEWS FOR THE SOUL There is an upcoming opportunity to announce your products and services on this great radio station. If you haven’t been to this site, you are missing out. NFTS is ranked by Google as the #1 Life-Changing Talk Radio Show on the Internet. You’ll find lots of great interviews to enhance your life – including a few with yours truly. I was on again just this evening! www.newsforthesoul.com. Please also support this amazing resource – lots of material to strengthen your spiritual connection, so it’s a great place to tithe. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- IV. Tapping Transcription: The Need for Chaos (Side of the Hand) Even though I have this need for chaos, I deeply and completely love and accept myself, Even though I seem to have this need for chaos, I deeply and completely love and forgive myself, Even though I seem to have a need for chaos, I need a lot to be going on, I need there to be a lot of problems, A lot of stuff that keeps distracting me, A lot of things that keep me busy, Even though I need to create all kinds of problems, I can’t allow myself to be grounded, I can’t allow myself to be centered, I can’t allow it to be smooth, I can’t allow it to be easy, And I wonder why that is? What am I trying to avoid? What am I trying to feel? Or not feel, What is going on? And at what point, Did I decide, That it was safer to be this way? I’m not sure when I decided that, But I’m deciding now, That I don’t hafta’ be that way any more, I deserve to let it be easy, And even though I have this need for chaos, I deeply and completely, Love and forgive and accept myself, And anyone else, Who has contributed to this need. (EyeBrow Point) This need for chaos, (Side of the Eye) This need for chaos, (Under the Eye) This need for chaos, (Under the Nose) This need for chaos, (Under the Mouth) This need for chaos, (CollarBone Point) I just can’t let it be smooth, (Under the Breast) I just can’t let it be easy, (Under the Arm) I need a lot going on, (Top of the Head) To feel safe, (EB) It must be to feel safe, (SE) That’s why I do everything, (UE) My subconscious mind, (UN) Has a prime directive, (UM) Of keeping me safe, (CB) So when anything’s going on in my life, (UB) And I’m not sure why, (UA) The internal answer is, (TH) I’m looking to be safe, (EB) What I’m not sure of, (SE) Is why I think it’s safer, (UE) To have chaos in my life, (UN) Why do I need this chaos? (UM) How does this make me safer? (CB) How does this make me safer? (UB) What am I afraid of? (UA) What am I afraid will happen? (TH) What am I afraid I will feel? (EB) What feelings am I trying to avoid? (SE) Am I afraid I’ll be bored? (UE) Do I need a lot of activity to keep me interested? (UN) Do I need a lot of activity to feel alive? (UM) Am I afraid if things were smooth, (CB) That that’s the end? (UB) Maybe part of me thinks, (UA) That there’s plenty of time for it to be smooth after I’m dead, (TH) I need a lot of activity while I’m alive, (EB) So that I feel alive, (SE) Maybe it’s what I learned from my parents, (UE) Even my parents have a lot of chaos, (UN) There’s always a lot going on, (UM) Something to be dealt with, (CB) Something to be handled, (UB) I saw that as a small child, (UA) And that’s what I accepted as life, (TH) Life is chaos, (EB) Life is chaos, (SE) Life is chaos, (UE) And if that’s what I believed, (UN) I might have likewise believed, (UM) That the absence, (CB) Is the absence of life, (UB) And that’s a good thing to avoid, (UA) It’s safe to avoid the absence of life, (TH) So I’m avoiding the absence of chaos, (EB) And creating it wherever I can, (SE) I’m creating it wherever I can, (UE) And maybe it’s possible, (UN) That I made a mistake, (UM) That I can be fully alive, (CB) Without the chaos, (UB) I can be fully alive, (UA) And have it be smooth, (TH) I can be fully alive, (EB) And have it be easy, (SE) I can let it be easy, (UE) I can let it be easy, (UN) I can let it be easy, (UM) I can let it be easy, (CB) I don’t need everything going on at once, (UB) I don’t need everything going on at once, (UA) It’s not making things safer for me, (TH) It’s not making me more alive, (EB) It’s taking away from my life, (SE) I choose to live life to the fullest, (UE) That doesn’t mean living life to the busiest, (UN) It doesn’t mean chaos, (UM) It doesn’t mean problems, (CB) I choose to have what I can handle, (UB) I also choose to know, (UA) That I can handle what’s coming up, (TH) I’m not creating anything, (EB) That I can’t handle, (SE) God won’t give me more, (UE) Than I can handle, (UN) I wish He didn’t have so much faith in me, (UM) I’d like it to slow down a little bit, (CB) I choose for it to be easier, (UB) I choose for it to be easier, (UA) I’m lettin’ it be easy, (TH) I’m lettin’ it be easy, (EB) Whatever decision I made, (SE) About needing chaos, (UE) I’m now undeciding that, (UN) I now decide, (UM) For it to be smooth, (CB) For it to be easy, (UB) I deserve for it to be easy, (UA) I deserve for it to be smooth, (TH) There are people out there, (EB) For whom it’s a lot easier, (SE) They’re no more deserving than I am, (UE) I am just as deserving of easy, (UN) So I am clearing out that old decision, (UM) That old need for chaos, (CB) That old need for chaos, (UB) That old need for chaos, (UA) That old need for chaos, (TH) Lettin’ it go, (EB) Lettin’ it be easy, (SE) Lettin’ it go, (UE) Lettin’ it be easy, (UN) Lettin’ it go, (UM) Lettin’ it be easy, (CB) I deserve for it to be easy, (UB) Lettin’ it be easy, (UA) I deserve for it to be easy, (TH) Joyfully and gratefully lettin’ it be easy. Take A Deep Breath! ------------------------------------------------------------------------- ------------------------------------------------------------------------- V. Closing Quotation “If you feel distant from God, guess who moved.” - Unknown ----------------------------------------------------------------------------- ----------------------------------------------------------------------------- VI. Reminder Item Perhaps you've read my article called Manifestation 101, which SelfGrowth.com also distributed. The manifestation steps are: Create It Clear It Live It Let Go (& Let God) Get Movin’ (aka Take Likely Action) To go along with that, here is a collection of affirmations from abundance experts John Randolph Price and Catherine Ponder. I recommend you print these out and post them where you will read them each morning. Nothing is too good to be true. Nothing is too wonderful to happen. Nothing is too good to last. My conscious awareness of the Divine Presence as my supply is my supply. I am now consciously aware of the indwelling fountain of overflowing abundance. Therefore, I AM abundant supply. My consciousness is the very energy of money. I AM the Spirit of Infinite Plenty. I am boundless abundance, and with love in my heart, I let the universal riches stream forth into perfect manifestation. What is expressed in love must be returned in full measure. Therefore, wave after wave of visible money supply flows to me now. I am wonderfully rich in consciousness, and I am bountifully supplied with money. I now realize my plan for abundant living. There is always an abundance of money, and I now let it come to me. I am open to receive. I cannot be limited, for I am the Shining Sun of Supply, and God’s wealth fills my world. I am receiving. I am receiving now. I am receiving all the wealth that the universe has for me now. I do not depend on persons or conditions for my good. God is the source of my supply and God provides his own amazing channels of good to me now. All that is mine by divine right now comes to me speedily, richly, freely and easily. I am receiving now. It is finished. It is done. I give thanks that I have received, and that my good appears in rich appropriate form under divine timing. I expect Success!!! -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Thanks for reading! Please let me know how I might be of further service as you clear emotional pain and embrace the joyful success you so richly deserve! Be Magnificent! Brad Brad Yates, C.Ht. brad@bradyates.net (916) 729-0347 7909 Walerga Rd. Suite 112, #287 Antelope, CA 95843 www.bradyates.net |
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