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SUCCESS BEYOND BELIEF! 6.15.06 © 2006 Brad Yates, C.Ht. www.bradyates.net Success Beyond Belief is a free monthly newsletter designed to support you in enhancing the quality of your life. You deserve an abundance of health, wealth and happiness! I hope you enjoy this edition of Success Beyond Belief. If you know someone whom you think would also enjoy it and find it of benefit, please forward it on – thanks! (Note: You are welcome to forward or otherwise use any portion of this newsletter, provided you include the copyright information. Thank you.) If someone has forwarded this to you, and you would like your own subscription, please send an e-mail to 53846-subscribe@zinester.com - welcome! Also, I appreciate your feedback. Please send any comments to: newsletter@bradyates.net. In this issue: I. Article: Taking Responsibility II. News and Information III. Must-See Links IV. Tapping Transcription: Resistance to Taking Responsibility V. Closing Quotation -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I. Article: Taking Responsibility Yes…that’s right…taking responsibility. 100% responsibility. For everything in your life. I can hear it now… “Awwwww mannnnn…!!! Do I hafta?!?” Nope. You don’t Of course, as long as you aren’t responsible, how effective will your efforts be to succeed…to be happy… to be healthy…? “Awwwww MANNNNN…!!!” Yes, sometimes if feels like taking responsibility bites, to use the vernacular. It is also an important key to success. In fact, in his book “Success Principles,” Jack Canfield listed it as Principle Number One. If you are unhappy in your job, are you blaming your boss…? If you are unhappy in your relationship, are you blaming your spouse/partner…? If you are unhappy with your body, are you blaming the tobacco or fast food industries…? If you are unhappy in general, are you blaming your parents…? Your kids…? The government…? Why not? Everyone else does. Or … do they? The truly successful people in life take responsibility for their lives. For how they feel, and what they create. So, let’s just say that most people blame others. It is certainly prevalent, and seemingly a much easier way to live. I mean, who wants to feel it is their fault? We all want to think we are doing it right, so if it isn’t going right, by all means let’s point the finger. But, do you want a scapegoat, or do you want success…? Do you want to be happy, or be a victim…? And, these people will often tell you that you SHOULD be upset by what someone else did. But, when someone says that, ask if they are really an authority on happiness… Imagine that the key to happiness and success was really a key – one you could hold in your hand… Every time you say, “That person is making me so upset!” you are handing that key to the other person. Then, in order for you to be happy, it will up to them to turn the key…to change things. Given that they did whatever they did in the first place, is that really the person you want to entrust with your key to happiness…? Take it back! There are certain situations where we might feel helpless about what happens – but we still have a choice about how we feel and react. You may claim your response is necessary – outside your control – but not everyone will react the same way, so it is not an absolute. So the question is: is that reaction working for you? And if it doesn’t really have to be that way, might it be worth it to change it? Now, admittedly, some pretty horrible things happen to folks as children. Those things that people don’t mention when you meet them at a party – or even to their spouses – I get to hear these stories. Some of them are terrifying – it’s a good thing I tap during sessions. It is not my suggestion children take responsibility to the horrors done to them - and it would be pretty remarkable for a child to have the kind of enlightened attitude Viktor Frankl had in the concentration camp, where he chose the freedom of taking responsibility for his attitude despite the horrors he was forced to endure. As a child, someone may have taken your key by force. But, you can take it back now. Past trauma can be cleared. There are options and resources. This is not a judgment thing – there isn’t something wrong with you if you don’t make that choice. Depending on what you’ve been through, and what you’ve been taught, it may not be easy. But, you have a choice – you can take back that key – and it unlocks the door to an abundance of health, wealth and happiness. Along with that, imagine the good you could do and the empowering message you could pass on by overcoming your challenges (which may be why you went through them in the first place…). Every time you feel compelled to hand your key over to someone else, remember that you are making a choice… that you are giving up your right to experience more joy and success. The more responsibility you take, the more success you can create. Why settle for less than 100%? ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- II. News and Information SPECIAL LAW OF ATTRACTION TELESEMINAR - JULY 5th From a discussion with my colleague Retta O’Meara (http://www.all4webs.com/3/q/redretta/), it occurred to me that there was need for a teleseminar to clear what could be called the “dark side” of the Law of Attraction – the idea that while LOA can bring us what we want if we think and feel good, thinking and feeling badly brings what we don’t want. It is easy to get stuck in that cycle – feeling badly about circumstances, then feeling fearful that you are creating more of that. So, on July 5th, I’ll be doing a major teleseminar, along with my friend Bob Doyle of Wealth Beyond Reason (http://tinyurl.com/z3h5m) and “The Secret” fame. Oh, and there won’t be a charge for it. Details will be sent out in the coming weeks… ******************************* AFFILIATES If you are an affiliate of my website, please send me an e-mail, as I’d like to share information with you about letting folks know about this coming teleseminar. If you have not already done so, please send an e-mail to affiliates@bradyates.net. If you are not an affiliate yet, and would like to be, please visit: http://www.bradyates.net/page46.html for Money Beyond Belief! and http://www.bradyates.net/page11.html for eTappings™ and my other products. Thank you! ******************************* iTAPPINGS…?! Imagine having EFT tappings and guided imageries wherever you go... A few years ago, I pioneered brief EFT sessions as audios on the computer, and called them eTappings™. One person wrote: “This could be the greatest self-help tool on the internet!” Since these are downloadable as MP3s, the could also be the greatest self-help tool on your iPod or other MP3 player! http://www.bradyates.net/page9.html ******************************* FREEDOM AT YOUR FINGERTIPS A huge THANK YOU to all of you who purchased “Freedom at Your Fingertips” - you took it to #4 on Amazon!!! If you haven’t gotten it yet, please visit: http://www.profcs.com/app/?af=390113 ******************************* RATE CHANGE FYI My rates for private sessions will be going up at the end of this month, though not for those already working with me. Just an FYI in case you have been considering doing one-on-one work. Are you living the life you really want? Is there some area of your life you are working on where you could use some outside support? Would achieving your goal be worth an investment in yourself? I am committed to helping you live the best life you can (and you might be surprised by how good that can be…). Call for a free 20-minute phone consultation to discuss how what you really want – and how to get it. (916) 729-0347 or http://www.bradyates.net/page4.html I was given permission to share this e-mail – a follow-up from a client dealing with insomnia, among some other concerns: “Want to tell you that the effects of our time together are profound. -1- Last night I slept nine hours………………easily and deeply! -2- I am present in a whole new way in my apartment. With ease, with security, with a big OK for everything I am doing and the way I am doing it. -3- I am cleansed and released at levels that haven’t even begun to reveal themselves yet. -4- And perhaps what is the best part…I am eager to dare to let my divine Source do the work. A number of weeks ago, when I knew I needed some outside help, it was your name that I was given from my inner guidance. It was the right lead, and I congratulate myself for following it. I connected with your spirit through your writings and audios, and know today that you are the right mentor for me. Your “God is good at what I do” is perfect for me. I am ready to move forward, and today I begin something I have hedged about for months, preparing a proposal of the workshops I have wanted so long to offer, (which will include using EFT), based on the various chapters in my book. I will advertise it on my website and locally to suitable venues. I can now think about doing this with delight instead of dread. Feels GOOD. Feels even BETTER to know that the Universe is steeped in this undertaking, directing it, and orchestrating a great outcome. Thank you for making yourself and your gifts so available, which perhaps is the definition of the ultimate servant. Looking forward to many great sleeps!” - D.P. I love my job! ******************************* TELESEMINARS BEYOND BELIEF Do you have Money Beyond Belief yet…? Check it out at: www.moneybeyondbelief.com “I stumbled upon the Wealth Beyond Reason program when looking for EFT and its benefits. I was not actively looking to manifest wealth as my concerning situation was with relationships. But just to see how EFT works I started doing the tapping by following Brad's sessions. I must say I definitely liked his style of EFT. Interestingly, within a week I got a new job offer that I later took up with a raise of about 35% and also ended up manifesting a brand new Lexus within a month. I was pleasantly surprised as I previously driving a 10 year old Honda (I still love my old car) and was not looking for a new car or a job at that time.” - S.D. How about Sales Beyond Belief? This teleseminar is at: http://www.salesbeyondbelief.com/page3.html And… there’s www.golfbeyondbelief.com as well. There’s also a great EFT book on golf by my friend Larry Phillips, with contributions from several great practitioners. You can find more about it here: http://www.nolimiteftbooks.com/site/1551023/page/45029 ******************************* TAPPING INTO ABUNDANCE Another great (and unsolicited) testimonial from one of the participants on a recent “Tapping into Abundance” teleclass: “As a direct result of our work last night on the teleconference, I have ALREADY doubled the amount of clients I will allow myself to receive! And it's only Tues.!” - C.S. There are a few slots open if you would like to join us at 8am PST Sunday to tap away issues that block an abundance of health, wealth and happiness. It’s not only beneficial – it’s FUN! For more details, go to http://www.bradyates.net/page4.html or e-mail me at tia@bradyates.net. ******************************* NEED A DYNAMIC SPEAKER? Brad Yates is available for speaking engagements – either training in EFT, or using his unique blend of EFT, personal growth teachings and humor to talk on a variety of life enhancement subjects, including Attracting Abundance, Overcoming Resistance (such as in sales), Healthy Body Image, Sports Improvement, Dealing with Change, and Stress Management. Contact info is at: www.bradyates.net ******************************* THE KEY TO SUCCESS (and other online goodies!) My eBook “The Key to Success” is available at my website… it comes with two audios! http://www.bradyates.net/page3.html “I find that your eBook (Key to Success) is not only well written, your teaching and perspective adds to the mechanics. Yours is the best I have found, and only wish that I had started with yours.” – A.S. Enjoy the benefits of working with a pro at your convenience – experience eTappings! http://www.bradyates.net/page9.html You can get the eBook and all the eTappings at a very discounted rate by purchasing what I call the Master Key: http://www.bradyates.net/page12.html. Don’t forget to sign up as an affiliate and add to your prosperity. :) http://www.bradyates.net/page11.html ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- III. Must-See Links HELP SAVE PBS! While it is not my intention to get political in this newsletter, there are some causes I find important – and saving “Sesame Street” is one of them. Please consider signing the petition telling Congress to save NPR and PBS again this year: http://civic.moveon.org/publicbroadcasting/ ******************************* ANOTHER REALLY COOL VIDEO! The Evolution of Dance – an amusing example on how change happens. Got this from my friend Shelby Collinge – it is very entertaining: http://www.lifeischange.com/ By the way, Shelby offers some great resources: http://tinyurl.com/78dg2 ******************************* NEWS FOR THE SOUL If you haven’t been to this site, you are missing out. NFTS is ranked by Google as the #1 Life-Changing Talk Radio Show on the Internet. You’ll find lots of great interviews to enhance your life – including a few with yours truly. www.newsforthesoul.com. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- IV. Tapping Transcription: Resistance to Taking Responsibility (Side of the Hand) Even though that much responsibility would be lonely, I deeply and completely love and accept myself, Even though that much power would be lonely, I deeply and completely love and forgive myself, Even though that much power would be lonely, I’d feel too much like God, Sittin’ alone on a cloud, Not needing anybody, And not having anybody, I’d feel so separated, And I don’t wanna’ be separated, I want people, I’m a person who needs people, And if I was that powerful, And had that much responsibility, I wouldn’t need people, And they’d all vanish, ‘Course if I had that much power, I could manifest the people I want, So much so, That only people I want in my life would show up, Telemarketers would disappear, At least from my perspective, Politicians would disappear, So even though I think this much power would be lonely, I deeply and completely, Love and forgive and accept myself, And all these people, Whom I’m afraid would abandon me. (Eyebrow Point) I think I’d be lonely, (Side of the Eye) If I was that powerful I wouldn’t need anyone, (Under the Eye) And I’d be lonely, (Under the Nose) That much power would leave me lonely, (Under the Mouth) That much power would leave me lonely, (CollarBone Point) That much power would leave me lonely, (Under the Breast) That much power would leave me lonely, (Under the Arm) That much power would leave me lonely, (Top of the Head) I don’t wanna’ be lonely, (EB) I want people, (SE) And I have this idea, (UE) That if I was that powerful, (UN) And didn’t need people, (UM) That people would stop showing up in my life, (CB) And they might resent me, (UB) They’d resent my ability to have everything, (UA) That seems like a good excuse for depriving myself, (TH) I could have anything I want in the world, (EB) But no, I’m not gonna’ have that, (SE) Because it would piss other people off, (UE) Other people who have the exact same power, (UN) But are afraid they don’t know it, (UM) I am so magnanimous, (CB) That I will sacrifice what I want, (UB) For other people’s limiting beliefs, (UA) And I hope they appreciate it, (TH) Because that’s the kind of people I chose to manifest in my life, (EB) Petty people, (SE) Who would begrudge me what I want, (UE) I have the power to manifest what I want, (UN) I have the power to manifest who I want, (UM) I choose not to manifest what I want, (CB) Because I choose to manifest petty people, (UB) It’s a much safer way to live, (UA) And I’d have this excuse, (TH) No, no, I’m not going to manifest whatever I want, (EB) Because I’m going to limit myself for the sake of other people, (SE) Am I a giver or what? (UE) God, I’m fantastic! (UN) Here I am, (UM) With the Universe laid out at my feet, (CB) And for the sake of other people, (UB) I shall deprive myself, (UA) Because, God forbid, (TH) I show them they can have anything they want, (EB) Yea, I don’t wanna’ give them that much, (SE) So who’s being petty? (UE) The truth hurts, (UN) “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate,” (UM) “Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure,” (CB) “It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us,” (UB) “We ask ourselves,” (UA) “Who am I,” (TH) “To be brilliant,” (EB) “Gorgeous,” (SE) “Talented,” (UE) “And fabulous,” (UN) “Actually, who are you not to be?” (UM) “I am a Child of God,” (CB) “Actually, who am I not to be?” (UB) “I am a Child of God,” (UA) “My playing small doesn’t serve the world,” (TH) “There’s nothing enlightened about shrinking,” (EB) “That other people won’t feel insecure around me,” (SE) “We were born to make manifest the Glory of God that is within us,” (UE) “It’s not just in some of us,” (UN) “It’s in everyone,” (UM) “And as we let our own light shine,” (CB) “We unconsciously give other people permission to do the same,” (UB) “As we are liberated from our own fear,” (UA) “Our presence automatically liberates others,” (TH) “But I’m afraid to do that,” (EB) “But I’m willing,” (SE) “I choose to make the decision,” (UE) “That the people around me deserve this,” (UN) “They don’t deserve having me play small,” (UM) “They don’t deserve having me make sacrifices,” (CB) “So as to not compromise their limiting beliefs,” (UB) “I don’t need to limit myself so that others can play safe,” (UA) “I was born to make manifest the Glory of God within me,” (TH) “But I’ve been saying to God,” (EB) “Hey, that’s a really nice idea,” (SE) “I’d love to play that way,” (UE) “But You see, You’ve created these other people around me,” (UN) “And they don’t get it,” (UM) “When You change their minds,” (CB) “Then I’ll play,” (UB) “Until then,” (UA) “Thanks, but no thanks,” (TH) “I can’t do what You put me here to do,” (EB) “Imagine if the Wright brothers,” (SE) “Had said,” (UE) “We’ll invent the airplane when everybody else is flying,” (UN) “And if Edison had said,” (UM) “I’ll light the light bulb,” (CB) “When everyone else has a light bulb,” (UB) “If Alexander Graham Bell had said,” (UA) “I’ll invent the telephone when everyone else has on,” (TH) “If Gandhi had said,” (EB) “I’ll liberate India,” (SE) “After it’s already liberated,” (UE) “And a million other incidents,” (UN) “That has kept the world moving forward,” (UM) “But that’s for other people,” (CB) “Other people are brilliant and talented and fabulous,” (UB) “Somehow God didn’t make me that way,” (UA) “I got the short end,” (TH) “Somehow, I’m not as good as other people,” (EB) “Or as deserving as other people,” (SE) “And all these other lies that I tell myself,” (UE) “I am as much a Child of God as anyone,” (UN) “I am just as magnificent, (UM) “I am equally worthy and deserving,” (CB) “There are people on this planet enjoying the things I wish to have,” (UB) “They are no more blessed by God than I am,” (UA) “They are no more magnificent than I am,” (TH) “I am as worthy and deserving as anyone,” Take A deep Breath ------------------------------------------------------------------------- ------------------------------------------------------------------------- IV. Closing Quotation “First say to yourself what you would be; and then do what you have to do.” - Epictetus ----------------------------------------------------------------------------- ----------------------------------------------------------------------------- VI. Reminder Item Perhaps you've read my article called Manifestation 101, which SelfGrowth.com also distributed. The manifestation steps are: 1. Create It 2. Clear It 3. Live It 4. Let Go (& Let God) To go along with that, here is a collection of affirmations from abundance experts John Randolph Price and Catherine Ponder. I recommend you print these out and post them where you will read them each morning. Nothing is too good to be true. Nothing is too wonderful to happen. Nothing is too good to last. My conscious awareness of the Divine Presence as my supply is my supply. I am now consciously aware of the indwelling fountain of overflowing abundance. Therefore, I AM abundant supply. My consciousness is the very energy of money. I AM the Spirit of Infinite Plenty. I am boundless abundance, and with love in my heart, I let the universal riches stream forth into perfect manifestation. What is expressed in love must be returned in full measure. Therefore, wave after wave of visible money supply flows to me now. I am wonderfully rich in consciousness, and I am bountifully supplied with money. I now realize my plan for abundant living. There is always an abundance of money, and I now let it come to me. I am open to receive. I cannot be limited, for I am the Shining Sun of Supply, and God’s wealth fills my world. I am receiving. I am receiving now. I am receiving all the wealth that the universe has for me now. I do not depend on persons or conditions for my good. God is the source of my supply and God provides his own amazing channels of good to me now. All that is mine by divine right now comes to me speedily, richly, freely and easily. I am receiving now. It is finished. It is done. I give thanks that I have received, and that my good appears in rich appropriate form under divine timing. I expect Success!!! -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Thanks for reading! Please let me know how I might be of further service as you clear emotional pain and embrace the joyful success you so richly deserve! Be Magnificent! Brad Brad Yates, C.Ht. brad@bradyates.net (916) 729-0347 7909 Walerga Rd. Suite 112, #287 Antelope, CA 95843 www.bradyates.net |
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