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Get a Support System, B.J. Reid R.N.

Get a Support System!

by B.J. Reid R.N.

Starting abstinence is not easy, but it is simple. Don't use your addictive substance to alter your mood! Many of us are addicted to sugar, caffeine etc. and when we stop using these substances many of us will experience withdrawal both physically and mentally. This usually will happen within a few days of denying yourself this substance and can last from one to two weeks. This is a dangerous time for us because it is the time when we wll want to take back our substance.

I believe that it is critical to have a support system, even just a rudimentary one, in place befor we begin abstinence.

Overeaters Anonymous could be the answer

When we are in the midst of our addiction we usually isolate and withdraw from our support system because we think they won't understand or because they might be judgemental or just because we have a disease that affects our thinking. And every once in a while we have moments of real clarity where we know that we need to do something now, today about our problem. So we start eating the way we think we should eat and it may last a few hours or even a day or two but the cravings just destroy us and we return to our harmful, self-destructive eating habits. We don't even have a chance for success without support around us because we have a disease that talks to us and tells us "It's ok to quit. After all we are hungry and there's always tomorrow." We don't have anyone around to help us not to hear that tape inside our head. Those that we do keep around us have become our chief enablers. They are often are "binge buddies" (.e.g. husbands, wives, other family members) and don't won't to change the status quo because they are comfortable right where you and they are. This isn't done always or even usually on a conscious level. Consequently you are supported to fail and this ok bcause this is often our only frame of reference.

The answer to this dilemna is to start attending OA meetings either face to face or online. I know just how difficult, on many levels, it is to walk into an OA meeting for the very first time. Our disease doesn't stop talking to us and doesn't want us to find recovery. We are usually ridden with shame, guilt, low self-esteem and self-loathing so we are not well equipped to face strangers and bare our soul. We find ways to duck going to the meetings, so often putting family ahead of ourselves seems always to be the best excuse. But I've known people who actually drive to the meeting and sit outside in their car because of overwhelming feelings of fear and shame. You must put your well being first and foremost and you must push the off button to that tape player in your head no matter how difficult it may seem. The people in those OA meetings are just like you and me. They have the same fears and doubts that we have. They have the same needs and the problem and yet they were able to get themselves into a meeting somehow.

If for some reason face to face meetings are just impossible at thistime then OA has a significant online presence. Going to meetings online is less preferable than face to face meetings but any port in a storm will do for now. Better that than nothing. These meetings online can be life saving and educational and you can see that there are a significant number of us with the same disease.

Once you get to your first meeting,either online or f2f, extend yourself just a wee bit further and get names, phone numbers and find a sponsor. You will then have the beginnings of a real support system and you've increased your chances of success a thousand fold. Listen at the meetings for a while. There is an old recovery saying that goes "take the cotton out of your ears and put it in your mouth for a while". It simply means to listen and learn. If your lucky you will find a meeting with some good recovery in it and if you're not there are always other meetings to attend.

So, in summary, don't try to go it alone. Most of us have tried that and it doesn't work. Increase your chances of success by expanding your support system. You won't regret it!

Living
It's Never Too Late: 2 Steps to Enjoying Life without Limits

by Jason Michael Gracia

As I work with individuals from every walk of life and from every area in the world, many of them have a common obstacle holding them back from more happiness and joy in their lives. It's a simple idea, but it can have a very powerful impact throughout an entire lifetime - it's too late to start.

'I want to become a teacher, but at my age, it's not possible.'

'I'm too old to go back to school. I should just forget the idea.'

'I'm already 40 years old, it's too late to travel, learn a new language, play an instrument...'

This kind of thinking can put an immediate stop to any ambitions or dreams you may have. I have seen it happen many times, and unfortunately I will see it again. This attitude of it being too late in life to begin new things is a trap, and with it comes unhappiness and an absence of excitement and anticipation in life. But there is a solution.

There are two ways to change this self-destructive outlook, and you can do both of them right now. You can put these two ideas to use so quickly because they are both changes in belief. These can happen in an instant and be reinforced for years to come.

TEN YEARS FROM NOW...
The first is best explained with this simple story. In a small restaurant there sat two couples on opposite sides of the room. One couple was in their thirties, while the other was in their forties. The younger couple was talking about how much they regretted not traveling when they were in their twenties, when it would have been possible.

The older couple spoke of the very same situation. They both wished they would have seen all the places they wanted to visit when they were ten years younger, when it would have been possible.

You see, this cycle will last forever. You may say to yourself, 'I wish I would have done so and so ten years ago,' but you'll be saying the same thing ten years from now. The point is to do what you have always wanted to do now. Next year you'll wish you would have started a year ago.

AN ENDLESS CURIOSITY
The second solution is constant growth. Live with the mind set that you will never stop learning and experiencing new things. Do not put a time limit on your goals or desires. Live life, really live it, every day for the rest of your life.

Life is exciting. There are so many opportunities and amazing things to learn, do, become. Each one of us is given the innate abilities to grow as human beings. Whether or not we use our gifts is up to us. But the time to begin is now.


by Jason Michael Gracia - Motivation123
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Humor
An Irishman's Philosophy

In life, there are only two things to worry about??”
Either you are well or you are sick.
If you are well, there is nothing to worry about,

But if you are sick, there are only two things to worry about??”
Either you will get well or you will die.
If you get well, there is nothing to worry about,

But if you die, there are only two things to worry about??”
Either you will go to heaven or hell.

If you go to heaven, there is nothing to worry about.

And if you go to hell, you??™ll be so busy shaking hands with all your friends
You won??™t have time to worry!

Food for Thought

If I Had My Life to Live Over

Erma Bormbeck

Note: Erma Bombeck needed an organ transplant, and even though she could have been moved to the head of the waiting list, due to her prominence and wealth (like Mickey Mantle), she refused to do such, and subsequently, died from organ failure.



IF I HAD MY LIFE TO LIVE OVER -
  • I would have talked less and listened more.
  • I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained, or the sofa faded.
  • I would have eaten the popcorn in the 'good' living room and worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace.
  • I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth.
  • I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed.
  • I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage.
  • I would have sat on the lawn with my children and not worried about grass stains.
  • I would have cried and laughed less while watching television-and more while watching life.
  • I would have shared more of the responsibility carried by my husband.
  • I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending the earth would go into a holding pattern if I weren't there for the day.
  • I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, wouldn't show soil, or was guaranteed to last a lifetime.
  • Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I'd have cherished every moment and realized that the wonderment growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist God in a miracle.
  • When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would never have said, "Later. Now go get washed up for dinner."
  • There would have been more "I love you's".. more "I'm sorry's" ... but mostly, given another shot at life, I would seize every minute...look at it and really see it ... live it...and never give it back.

    Stop sweating the small stuff. Don't worry about who doesn't like you, who has more, or who's doing what. Instead, let's cherish the relationships we have with those who Do love us. And what we are doing each day to promote ourselves mentally,physically, emotionally, as well as spiritually. Life is too short to let it pass you by.

    We only have one shot at this and then it's gone.

  • Affirmations:

    Stress Eliminating Affirmations

    Robert Elias Najemy

    Our thoughts create our reality. Here are some Affirmations which create a more positive, happier more fulfilling reality.

    A. About Ability and Security


    1. Anxiety solves no problems ?­ actions do.

    2. Some problems are problems only because I believe them to be.

    3. I have the inner power and strength to deal with whatever life brings me.

    4. I am capable of handling any possible difficulties which might occur.

    5. I feel safe and secure in every situation.

    6. While making my own sincere effort, I entrust my life, my family and the results of all my efforts into God??s (the Universes) wise and just judgment.

    7. Life gives me in each moment exactly what I need in every situation in order to be happy, perform my life and purpose and grow spiritually.

    8. I am intelligent and capable enough to succeed in any endeavor which is important to me.

    B. About Self-Worth


    1. My self-worth is a function of my inner being (0f who I am) and not what others think of me or how much I accomplish.

    2. The results of my efforts depend on many different factors including also my efforts.

    3. My self worth is totally independent of any external factors such as: intelligence, wealth, my home, appearance, talents, professional success, my children??s success, being attractive to the opposite sex, making friends, disciplines, "spiritual" activities.

    4. I am worthy of love and respect even when I am not perfect in what I do and even when I make mistakes.

    5. My self-worth is totally independent of whether others agree with me or are satisfied with me.

    6. My self-worth is totally independent of how people behave towards me.

    7. My self-worth is totally independent of how much others work or how they work or what they believe about me.

    8. My self-worth is a reflection of my divine nature and not my gender, religion, social class etc.

    9. I am a good person, a worthy person.

    C. Freedom and Love


    1. I respect and love all persons (especially my parents and family) without feeling any need whatsoever to live my life according to their beliefs or values. I live my life in harmony with my inner values and beliefs.

    2. I am in no way responsible for others people??s reality but only for my own motives and behavior towards them.

    3. No one else is responsible for my reality. I am totally responsible for what I feel and experience in life.

    4. I am responsible for my purity of my motives and quality of my efforts and not for the results of my efforts or their affect on others.

    5. All beings deserve my love and respect, including myself

    6. I understand the fears behind each person??s negative actions.

    7. I am free in each moment to be myself.

    8. No one can limit my freedom unless I need something from them.

    9. Real freedom is freedom from fears, needs and false limiting beliefs.

    10. Real freedom is the ability to do what ever is in my best interest as a soul in the process of evolution.

    11. Real freedom is the freedom to experience peace, love and happiness regardless of what happens or others?? behavior.

    Be Well

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    (Robert Elias Najemy's recently released book "The Psychology of Happiness" (ISBN 0-9710116-0-5) is available at
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    Recipe
    Eating Out, Not a Problem

    Try this from Wendy's:

    Grilled chicken sandwich (hold the bread,mayo,cheese lettuce and tomato)
    Plain baked potato (eat only half)
    large side salad with vinegar and oil dressing
    Pick up a piece of fruit from the convenience store

    Wendy's grilled chicken sandwich is usually 3 oz.
    The baked potato is usually 8 oz.

    This will give you a complete lunch meal! Don't forget to drink enough water!
    Fitness and Exercise:
    Walking: An Exercise for All Ages

    Walking is easily the most popular form of exercise. Other activities generate more conversation and media coverage, but none of them approaches walking in number of participants. Approximately half of the 165 million American adults (18 years of age and older) claim they exercise regularly, and the number who walk for exercise is increasing every year.

    Walking is the only exercise in which the rate of participation does not decline in the middle and later yearn. In a national survey, the highest percentage of regular walkers (39.4%) for any group was found among men 65 years of age and older.

    Unlike tennis, running, skiing, and other activities that have gained great popularity fairly recently, walking has been widely practiced as a recreational and fitness activity throughout recorded history. Classical and early English literature seems to have been written largely by men who were prodigious walkers, and Emerson and Thoreau helped carry on the tradition in America. Among American presidents, the most famous walkers included Jefferson, Lincoln, and Truman.

    Walking today is riding a wave of popularity that draws its strength from a rediscovery of walking's utility, pleasures, and health-giving qualities. This booklet is for those who want to join that movement.

    Walking:

    The Slower, Surer Way to Fitness

    People walk for many reasons: for pleasure ... to rid themselves of tensions ... to find solitude ... or to get from one place to another. Nearly everyone who walks regularly does so at least in part because of a conviction that it is good exercise.

    Often dismissed in the past as being "too easy" to be taken seriously, walking recently has gained new respect as a means of improving physical fitness. Studies show that, when done briskly on a regular. schedule, it can improve the body's ability to consume oxygen during exertion, lower the resting heart rate, reduce blood pressure, and increase the efficiency of the heart and lungs. It also helps burn excess calories.

    Since obesity and high blood pressure are among the leading risk factors for heart attack and stroke, walking often protection against two of our major killers.

    Walking burns approximately the same amount of calories per mile as does running, a fact particularly appealing to those who find it difficult to sustain the jarring effects of long distance jogging. Brisk walking one mile in 15 minutes burns just about the same number of calories as jogging an equal distance in 81/2 minutes. In weight-bearing activities like walking, heavier individuals will burn more calories than lighter persons. For example, studies show that a 110-pound person burns about half as many calories as a 216-pound person walking at the same pace for the same distance.

    Although increasing walking speed does not burn significantly more calories per mile, a more vigorous walking pace will produce more dramatic conditioning effects. When looking at the benefits to heart/lung endurance, how far one improves depends on his/her initial fitness level. Someone starting out in poor shape will benefit from a slow speed of walking whereby someone in better condition would need to walk faster and/or father to improve. Recent studies show that there are also residual benefits to vigorous exercise. For a period of time after a dynamic workout, one's metabolism remains elevated above normal which results in additional calories burned.

    In some weight-loss and conditioning studies, walking actually has proven to be more effective than running and other more highly-touted activities. That's because it's visually injury-free and has the lowest dropout rate of any form of exercise.

    Like other forms of exercise. walking appears to have a substantial psychological payoff. Beginning walkers almost invariably report that they feel better and sleep better, and that their mental outlook improves.

    Walking also can exert a favorable influence on personal habits. For example, smokers who begin walking often cut down or quit. There are two reasons for this. One, it is difficult to exercise vigorously if you smoke, and two, better physical condition encourages a desire to improve other aspects of one's life.

    In addition to the qualities it has in common with other activities, walking has several unique advantages. Some of these are: Almost everyone can do it.

    You don't have to take lessons to learn how to walk. Probably all you need to do to become a serious walker is step up your pace and distance and walk more often.

    You can do it almost anywhere.

    All you have to do to find a place to walk is step outside your door. Almost any sidewalk, street, road, trail, park, field, or shopping mall will do. The variety of settings available is one of the things that makes walking such a practical and pleasurable activity.

    You can do it almost anytime.

    You don't have to find a partner or get a team together to walk, so you can set your own schedule. Weather doesn't pose the same problems and uncertainties that it does in many sports. Walking is not a seasonal activity. and you can do it in extreme temperatures that would rule out other activities.

    It doesn't cost anything.

    You don't have to pay fees or join a private club to become a walker. The only equipment required is a sturdy, comfortable pair of shoes.

    Walking for Physical Fitness

    What makes a walk a workout? It's largely a matter of pace and distance. When you' re walking for exercise, you don't saunter, stroll, or shuffle. Instead, you move out at a steady clip that is brisk enough to make your heart beat faster and cause you to breathe more deeply.

    Here are some tips to help you develop an efficient walking style:

    Hold head erect and keep back straight and abdomen flat. Toes should point straight ahead and arms should swing loosely at sides.

    Land on the heel of the foot and roll forward to drive off the ball of the foot. Walking only on the ball of the foot, or in a flat-footed style, may cause fatigue and soreness.

    Take long, easy strides, but don't strain for distance. When walking up or down hills, or at a very rapid pace, lean forward slightly.

    Breathe deeply (with mouth open, if that is more comfortable).

    What to Wear When Walking

    A good pair of shoes is the only "special equipment" required by the walker. Any shoes that are comfortable, provide good support, and don't cause blisters or calluses will do, but here are some suggestions to help you make your selection:

    * Good running shoes (the training models with heavy soles) are good walking shoes, as are some of the lighter trail and hiking boots and casual shoes with heavy rubber or crepe rubber soles.

    * Whatever kind of shoe you select, it should have arch supports and should elevate the heel one-half to three-quarters of an inch above the sole of the foot.

    * Choose a shoe with uppers made of materials that "breathe," such as leather or nylon mesh.

    Weather will dictate the rest of your attire. As a general rule, you will want to wear lighter clothing than temperatures seem to indicate. Walking generates lots of body heat.

    In cold weather, it's better to wear several layers of light clothing than one or two heavy layers. The extra layers help trap heat, and they are easy to shed if you get too warm. A wool watch cap or ski cap also will help trap body heat and provide protection for the head in very cold temperatures.

    Walking Poses Few Health Risks

    If you are free of serious health problems, you can start walking with confidence. Walking is not as strenuous as running, bicycling, or swimming and consequently involves almost no risk to health. Of course, this statement assumes that you will exercise good judgment and not try to exceed the limits of your condition.

    Most physicians recommend annual physical examinations for persons over 40 or 45 years of age. Also, if you have high blood pressure or other cardiovascular problems, you should consult your physician before beginning any kind of exercise program.

    Warmup and Conditioning Exercises

    Walking is good exercise for the legs, heart, and lungs, but it is not a complete exercise program. Persons who limit themselves to walking tend to become stiff and inflexible, with short, tight muscles in the back and backs of the legs. They also may lack muscle tone and strength in the trunk and upper body. These conditions can lead to poor posture and chronic lower-back pain, a problem that partially cripples or disables thousands of middle-aged and older Americans.

    The exercises that follow are designed to increase flexibility and strength and to serve as a "warmup" for walking. Always do the exercises before walking.

    Stretcher Stand facing wall arms' length away. Lean forward and place palms of hands flat against wall, slightly below shoulder height. Keep back straight, heels firmly on floor, and slowly bend elbows until forehead touches wall. Tuck hips toward wall and hold position for 20 seconds. Repeat exercise with knees slightly flexed.

    Reach and Bend Stand erect with feet shoulder-width apart and arms extended over head. Reach as high as possible while keeping heels on floor and hold for 10 counts. Flex knees slightly and bend slowly at waist, touching floor between feet with fingers. Hold for 10 counts (If you can't touch the floor, try to touch the tops of your shoes.) Repeat entire sequence 2 to 5 times.

    Knee Pull Lie flat on back with legs extended and arms at sides. Lock arms around legs just below knees and pull knees to chest, raising buttocks slightly off floor. Hold for 10 to 15 counts. (If you have knee problems, you may find it easier to lock arms behind knees.) Repeat exercise 3 to 5 times.

    Situp Several versions of the situp are listed in reverse order of difficulty (easiest one listed first, most difficult one last). Start with the situp that you can do three times without undue strain. When you are able to do 10 repetitions of the exercise without great difficulty, move on to a more difficult version.

    1. Lie flat on back with arms at sides, palms down, and knees slightly bent. Cud head forward until you can see past feet, hold for three counts, then lower to start position. Repeat exercise 3 to 10 times.

    2. Lie flat on back with arms at sides, palms down, and knees slightly bent. Roll forward until upper body is at 45-degree angle to floor, then return to starting position. Repeat exercise 3 to 10 times.

    3. Lie flat on back with arms at sides, palms down, and knees slightly bent. Roll forward to sitting position, then return to starting position. Repeat exercise 3 to 10 times.

    4. Lie flat on back with arms crossed on chest and knees slightly bent. Roll forward to sitting position, then return to starting position. Repeat exercise 3 to 10 times.

    5. Lie flat on back with hands laced in back of head and knees slightly bent. Roll forward to sitting position, then return to starting position. Repeat exercise 3 to 15 times.

    How Far?. . . How Fast?,.. How Soon?

    Now that you have decided to begin walking for exercise, you may be shocked at how poor your condition is. If at first you have difficulty in meeting the standards suggested here, don't be discouraged. You can systematically build your stamina and strength back to acceptable levels. Patience is the key to success. Some experts say that it takes a month of reconditioning to make up for each year of physical inactivity.

    No one can tell you exactly how far or how fast to walk at the start, but you can determine the proper pace and distance by experimenting. We recommend that you begin by walking for 20 minutes at least four or five times a week at a pace that feels comfortable to you. If that proves to be too tiring, or too easy, reduce or lengthen your time accordingly.

    Some very old people and some people who are ill begin by walking for one or two minutes, resting a minute, and repeating this cycle until they begin to be fatigued. Where you have to start isn't important; it's where you're going that counts.

    As your condition improves, you should gradually increase your time and pace. After you have been walking for 20 minutes several days a week for one month, start walking 30 minutes per outing. Eventually, your goal should be to get to the place where you can comfortably walk three miles in 45 minutes, but there is no hurry about getting there.

    The speed at which you walk is less important than the time you devote to it, although we recommend that you walk as briskly as your condition permits. It takes about 20 minutes for your body to begin realizing the "training effects" of sustained exercise.

    The "talk test" can help you find the right pace. You should be able to carry on a conversation while walking. If you're too breathless to talk, you' re going too fast.

    The more often you walk, the faster you will improve. Three workouts a week are considered to be a "maintenance level" of exercise. More frequent workouts are required for swift improvement.

    Listen to Your Body

    Listen to your body when you walk. If you develop dizziness, pain, nausea, or any other unusual symptom, slow down or stop. If the problem persists, see your physician before walking again.

    Don't try to compete with others when walking. Even individuals of similar age and build vary widely in their capacity for exercise. Your objective should be to steadily improve your own performance, not to walk farther or faster than someone else.

    The most important thing is simply to set aside part of each day and walk. No matter what your age or condition, it's a practice that can make you healthier and happier.

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