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TABLE OF CONTENTS

1. WELCOME NOTES
2. QUOTES FOR THE MONTH
3. EDITOR'S ARTICLE:  How to Turn Your Curiosity
into a Book! by Dawn Colclasure
4. ADVERTISEMENTS
5. GUEST ARTICLE:  How to Raise Happy,
Well-Adjusted Children by Suzan L. Wiener
6. WHAT'S UP WITH THE BOOK'S WRITERS?
7. BOOK NEWS
8. FREEBIE CORNER
9. WRITING PARENT TIPS FOR SEPTEMBER
10. FORUM NEWS
11. UNSUBSCRIBE INSTRUCTIONS

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Welcome Notes

Welcome to this issue of the Burning the Midnight Oil
Book Zine!
I'm thrilled to have you as a subscriber! Thank you for
giving my E-zine the chance of appearing in your inbox!

Forgive me if you are receiving this more than once. I've had too many goofs in trying to get this right. I am crossing my fingers that this one goes well.

If ever you have any suggestions, please feel free to
E-mail them to
me at BurningMidnightOil@hotmail.com .

There is also news I'd like to share: Anyone who has their
own E-zine or newsletter is invited to reprint any of my
articles used here, at absolutely no charge! All I ask is
that you please ask for permission first and include my
bio that follows each article.

Also, I have some more great news!

Peter Bowerman, author of The Well-Fed Writer, the
award-winning ???standard??? on lucrative commercial
freelancing (writing for business entities at hourly rates of
$50-125+), just released his companion volume (95%
new content), TWFW: Back For Seconds. Buyers who
purchase either book through his site
( http://www.wellfedwriter.com ) get both FREE shipping and a
FREE e-book bonus.

In this issue, Suzan Wiener, a seasoned writing parent,
offers some great parenting tips. I especially liked her
concept of whispering into a child's ear when you try to
talk to them, because sometimes kids get so emotional
and caught up that they find it hard to listen to anyone
talking to them. I hope you, too, find a pearl in this mix of
parenting tips.

One of the reviewers for the MIDNIGHT OIL book
commented, ???I wish I'd thought of writing this book.??? And
while I've experienced this ???I wish I wrote that??? feeling
many times after reading a book, I know that too often,
the author got the idea from a single feeling: Curiosity.
My curiosity paved the way to coming up with the idea for
the MIDNIGHT OIL book and in my article, I will show
you how you can use your curiosity to turn it into a book,
too!

Enjoy this issue!

Hugs,

Dawn Colclasure
Editor and Publisher
http://dmcwriter.tripod.com/


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Quotes for the Month

???Be less curious about people and more curious about
ideas.???--Marie Curie

???The cure for boredom is curiosity. There is no cure for
curiosity.???--Ellen Parr

???Curiosity is the wick in the candle of learning.???--William
Arthur Ward

???Curiosity may have killed the cat, but where human
beings are concerned, the only thing a healthy curiosity
can kill is ignorance.???--Harry Lorayne

???I have no special talents. I am only passionately
curious.???--Albert Einstein

???I think, at a child's birth, if a mother could ask a fairy
godmother to endow it with the most useful gift, that gift
would be curiosity.???--Eleanor Roosevelt

???The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity
has its own reasons for existing. One cannot help but be
in awe when he contemplates the mysteries of eternity,
of life, of the marvelous structure of reality. It is enough if
one tries to comprehend a little of this mystery every
day. Never lose a holy curiosity.???--Edmund Burke

???When curiosity turns to serious matters, it's called
research.???--Marie von Ebner-Eschenbach

The above quotes came from Quote Lady's Quote of the
Day and Inspirational Quotations Site
(http://www.quotelady.com ).

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EDITORS ARTICLE

How to Turn Your Curiosity into a Book!

By: Dawn Colclasure ?© 2004

Call me crazy, but I read them.  The Acknowledgments
page in every book and novel never passes me unread.
As a writer, I'm well aware of the sacrifices we put into
writing our books. I'm well aware that people will help us
out (especially if they know theyll be thanked later on in a
book). And so I read the Acknowledgments page of
Chris Gavaler's novel, Pretend Im Not Here. But the day
I did that, it changed my life. It changed my perceptions
as a writing parent. It changed my feelings of loneliness
in my constant struggle to balance writing and parenting.

It changed everything.

Because when Chris thanked his young children for
taking naps so that he could write his book, I immediately
sat down to write him an e-mail along the lines of ???How
the heck did you DO that?????  I didn't want to know how
hed managed to get his kids to take naps (though it
would've been nice to know!!). I didn't want to know how
he'd managed to keep his desire to write a book alive
amid the chaos of parenting.

I wanted to know how he was able to write a book over
the course of an unpredictable schedule.

My curiosity led me to write about how he (and other
writing parents) managed to ???do that,??? too. This turned
into a series of articles I wrote for Write From Home
(http://www.writefromhome.com/ ), then a book I will
soon be holding in my hands on how other writing
parents have done it, too.

And it all started with one e-mail.

But, more to the point, it began with my curiosity. I had
NO ANSWERS on how to be a successful writer AND a
good parent, too. Sleep deprivation, a cranky baby,
erratic naptimes and copious feeding schedules meant
my writing time became compromised. But my curiosity
on how to solve this problem pushed me to write a book
about it. I am no longer curious about how to be a great
writing parent, because my book gave me the answers,
support and encouragement I needed to ???never give up???
and ???find balance??? (to quote a couple of writers in there).

This only serves as a reminder that a good deal of
books out there began with a writer's curiosity. They were
curious about how something is done, why something
exists, what happens if something else is done, why
certain events in history occurred and on and on. This
curiosity inspired them to write a book.

You can do the same.

The next time you are curious about something, pay
attention! What are you curious about? Who can you talk
to to get answers to your questions? What do books and
articles say about it? (Are there any?) Explore your
curiosity and the questions it inspires. Look for an angle
that you can turn into a book. (For example, many books
exist on certain aspects of war, presidential terms and
childrearing.)

Follow the rules of journalism and ask the Five Ws and H
questions: Who, what, where, when, why and how. Keep
asking these questions even after you get an answer.
One unanswered question may be your next book
subject!

If a famous or not-so-famous figure inspires your
curiosity, run with it. If there are no books written about
them, why not write one yourself? Or, if there are, look at
how you can write one offering something new and
unique.

Every book begins with a single idea, but curiosity can
help you get those ideas for your next book.  The next
time you are curious about something, explore your
curiosity and see where it leads you. Who knows, you
just might write a book about it.

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Dawn Colclasure edits and publishes the Burning
the Midnight Oil Book Zine, which is a product of
her book: BURNING THE MIDNIGHT OIL: How we
Survive as Writing Parents (Booklocker,
September, 2004).  She is also a poetry editor for
Skyline Magazine, contributing writer to the
newspaper SIGNews and a staff writer for the Web
site, The Shadowlands.  She's been published both
on and off the Web, in magazines such as
Mothering and American Fitness, and Web sites
such as Absolute Write, Writing Etc. and Writing
World. Visit her on the Web at
http://dmcwriter.tripod.com/ .


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ADVERTISEMENTS

No ads this month.


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GUEST ARTICLE

How To Raise Happy, Well-Adjusted Children
                         By Suzan L. Wiener

Here is some good advice my family follows when it
comes to raising happy, emotionally healthy children.
They're simple and easy to follow.

1. Always tell them you love them, especially when they
have been bad.

2. Always practice what you preach so your child will
know you are sincere and really mean what you say.

3. Look directly at them when talking to them and stop
everything else you're doing. They'll know that what
you're saying is really important.

4. Instead of screaming at them when they are giving
you a hard time, whisper it in their ear. They will definitely
want to hear what you're saying because they'll think it's a
secret.

5. Have simple rules and chores they can follow easily
and quickly and let it depend on their age and ability.
Don't give them something that will make them feel
inadequate because they can't do it. Not because they're
incapable, but because it's inappropriate for their age.

6. If they have to be punished, make the punishment fit
the 'crime.' Don't be too harsh, when the slip-up isn't a
big thing. If it's a first-time offense, a warning could
suffice as well.

7. Have them invite their friends over so you can see if
they're right for your child. If not, you can explain why
afterward, in a calm manner.

Following the above tips should help you in your goal to
have your child grow up to be a well-adjusted grownup
who can teach the same values to their children.


Suzan L. Wiener has had numerous writing articles,
poems, short stories and fillers published in many
national publications and online Web sites, such as
Canadian Writer's Journal, Mocha Memoirs, Writing
Etc., T-zero, Poetry Press among others.  She won first
place in a contest for NEB Publishing. (Editor's note:
Watch for Suzan's anecdote in the September 21 issue
of Woman's World Magazine!)

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WHAT'S UP WITH THE BOOK'S WRITERS?

Liana Metal, who is interviewed in Volume One, has a
new book out! Here is her announcement:

Flowers for Women by Liana Metal is a new anthology
written solely by women from all over the world.  It is a
flower garden of experiences and feelings that will
inspire and entertain you at the same time. Men who are
curious to know how women feel would also love this
book! This anthology is dedicated to women worldwide.

Get this ebook from http://liamet.tripod.com
or from http://lianametal.tripod.com

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BOOK NEWS

What's the latest with the first volume of BURNING THE
MIDNIGHT OIL: How We Survive as Writing Parents?

I just finished going over the galleys for this book. Watch
for its release during the end of the month! Keep posted
on the books release on our message board!

I am also working on the second volume.

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FREEBIE CORNER

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before submitting personal information.

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WRITING PARENT TIPS FOR SEPTEMBER

Tip:  It's back-to-school! Writing parents of school-aged
children now have more time to write! But the temptation
to do ???more important??? things like housework and running
errands is still there. When your kids are in school, make
it a rule to write for at least two hours before you do any
other tasks.

Tip: Take some time to network with other writing
parents. Visit sites like momwriters.com
(http://momwriters.com/ ) or check out some writing
groups on Yahoo! to unwind. The support and
encouragement really does help.

Tip:  For those of you with children not yet in school (or
for the homeschooling crowd), take time to enjoy the Fall
season with your kids. Write, but don't neglect.

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FORUM NEWS

Check out our forum at:
http://p197.ezboard.com/babsolutewrite
The password is: multitask

I posted about the questions I am asking in the second
volume. The reason for my post: Some questions used
in volume two are different from the questions in volume
one. Your input/suggestions on this posting are sincerely
appreciated.

Also, feel free to post your comments on the E-zine in
the ???E-zine??? thread.

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