SelfPositivity Archives Index | Subscribe | RSS
<< November27, 2007 - SelfPositivity - Free Sample Video January18, 2008 - Fri, 18 Jan 2008 12:22:33 +0300 SALE 73% OFF on Pfizer >>

Subject: SelfPositivity 2 more gifts and a few thoughts - December01, 2007



Self-Positivity! Newsletter
by Crystal Woods

1 Dec 2007


Contents:

Giveaways: Free Drawing Lesson & Attention Age Doctrine Part 2 (finally completed)Article: How to Make Goal Setting Humorous, Playful and FUN
Personal note
Giveaway details

You know how they say that what you focus on is what you draw to yourself? Well, this week I got two more emails from major names on the Internet giving away quality freebies I can pass on to you.

First, if you're interested in learning to draw, Jacque Fresco is fairly well known as having unconventional teaching methods he reckons can teach anyone to draw like a master. Mark Joyner ran a competition for people to vote for the worst drawing of several, then had him teach the winners - you can see the before and after on his blog here.

That's also where you can sign up for the free teleseminar he'll be running to give YOU a drawing lesson live via the web or phone on Dec 3.

Check out the before and after, though, of one of the entrants in his 'worlds worst artist' submissions - the boat in the after is pretty impressive for having great perspective on it.

Now I'll give you the cut and paste of what Mark says it's going to cover (and another freebie he just added)

You'll learn:

  • A simple method for drawing a cube perfectly that you can learn in minutes - even if you are the world's worst artist

  • Why the moment you learn to draw will immediately begin to open limitless horizons of visual expression (that extend well beyond what you may imagine)

  • How drawing can instantly improve your ability to communicate - easily surpassing those who do not possess this essential skill

  • 6 surprising ways to turn your new skill of drawing into money in your pocket ..

  • Plus, just for showing up on the call ...

    Exclusive Report: The IQ Myth and the 3 Surprising Simple Ways to Really Improve Intelligence That Work Almost Instantly. This report won't be offered again anywhere at any price. You'll discover why the old notion of "IQ" is extremely out-dated and why learning the new theories of intelligence will give you more freedom and more brain power right away. Plus you'll learn three surprisingly simple things you can do to boost your true intelligence - in all its various forms - almost instantly. Hint: learning to draw is only one of them.

The second giveaway is from Rich Schefren, who you probably all remember issued the report some time ago called "The Attention Age Doctrine". I recommended you wait for the full version, never having any idea it would be so many months away (that's what happens when perfectionism meets passion, right?). You've probably already received heaps of emails about it this week, since absolutely EVERYONE is promoting it, but I'll warn you now, it's NOT a light read, and it's targeted around building an online business. I found it fascinating for the insights into how we as people are changing as the modern world makes major impacts into our lives. The link to that one is here.

PS You'll probably also find this will be useful to know what kind of tactics are going to be used in the salesletters you get from here on in as well!


How To Make Goal Setting Playful, Humorous and FUN

Having goals is supposed to be very important for how much success you achieve in life. We've all been told that many times already. No big surprise there - it stands to reason that if you're not aiming for something you're much less likely to actually hit a target. But does it have to be this serious, all consuming process? I don't think so.

You see, when most people think of goals they think of major life issues - achieving millionaire status, looking like a model, getting a degree or something equally HUGE. But goals, when you think about it, is absolutely ANYTHING you decide you want to achieve, from cleaning up the lounge before your mother arrives through to finding the perfect shade of pink nailpolish for your toes (for all you guys out there, I won't tell if you don't!) ;-)

The reason we do achieve most of these smaller goals is because they are so simple and immediate, and we usually have either a consequence or a desired result in mind, something like your mother's face when she walks in if you still have yesterday's clothes on the lounge, or the look on the face of that cute guy down the beach when he catches sight of your toes in that adorable shade. You have a picture in your head and it either motivates you towards something (a singleminded until successful nailpolish hunt) or away from something (your mother's disappointment or whatever negative reaction you think you'd get). You know exactly what steps to take, and since there's so few of them, you tend to just get straight through them.

The secret, then, is in the power of your mental pictures. And this is exactly where you can start having fun.

Say you have a goal to drop 10 pounds. That's a pretty common one, although if you're one of the few wanting to gain that much you can use the same process and just change your target pictures. OK, so you've defined your goal. 10 pounds. At this stage it's just words in your head. Not very motivating, right?

Enter step 1 - attach some motivational pictures. This is where you let your creativity go mad. If you prefer to work towards things, then get exaggerating. See yourself in some designer outfit walking Nicole Kidman or Brad Pitt down a red carpet, with all the cameras focusing on YOU, ignoring them, and everybody wolf whistling. Getting a bit of an emotional charge yet? Ramp it up. Have the man or woman of your dreams come running up and faint at your feet when you smile at them, you're so stunning. Make a line of autograph seekers start queuing up. How about all the fashion magazines suddenly start zooming to a stop at the kerb so they can get photos? How creative can you get at this stage?
If you prefer working away from something you don't want to happen, then you do the same. Imagine yourself ballooning to the point where you roll down the street because your legs can't reach the ground anymore. You have someone come in the morning to drape a parachute cloth over you with a hole cut in it for your head and arms. Imagine not fitting through doors, unable to get into cars, buses or even trains anymore. How else could you expand on this picture? (pardon the pun)

The best trick at this point is to actually use BOTH sets of images. Get them going to the point of the ridiculous and make sure you have the emotional charge going while you picture them. You could even use one of the online goal setting services like the one at http://www.timequotient.com to hunt down pictures that suit and create a goals page you can print to keep in front of you or carry around with you. There's goalsetting software but without the picture option within the free Simple-olegy course.

If the goal is a bigger one, then the next step is to set yourself up milestones along the journey, and daydream yourself images of the things you'll have as rewards at each step of the way - one step at a time. You can focus on your next reward, then, as well as seeing your towards and away from images. It's important to have something to look forward to, and most people don't do 'deferred gratification' really well, so work with whatever best helps you keep the spirits up - if you had your weight goal then set up your smaller target and envision yourself relaxing at a spa, shopping for a new outfit, whatever you're going to use as your reward for the next small target to keep the process fun. Because, lets face it, if it isn't fun, you're much less likely to stick with it. We're coming up to January and New Years Resolution time and if you think back on your old resolutions no doubt you'll agree it's true.

The last tip for this article is to remember to keep your steps small. Think on how many of those small goals (clean lounge etc) you've achieved compared to how many of the big lifestyle type ones. Nothing wrong with going for something big, but as they say, the way to eat an elephant is one small bite at a time (although being a vegetarian I'm personally not going to picture that one!)
Best Wishes,
Crystal N Woods


Personal Note:

Back at work now after my very short trip to Melbourne, which I thoroughly enjoyed. Wish I could have more, and longer, holidays, but no doubt you guys do too... Naturally, Melbourne and shopping go together so I've pretty much got all my Christmas gifts taken care of (yay!) but it did mean I had to sweet talk the airline check in lady on the way back ;-)

I've also opened an account on Facebook, finally, so any of you that want to hook up with me there I'd be honoured to connect (just please mention the ezine in the message when you send your friend request so I know where you're coming from). I've just had one interview that I think went well, and have another coming up next week, so I'm hopeful to be in a situation to take up my online passions in a proper way again soon. Fingers crossed!

Have a great week!









<< November27, 2007 - SelfPositivity - Free Sample Video January18, 2008 - Fri, 18 Jan 2008 12:22:33 +0300 SALE 73% OFF on Pfizer >>
SelfPositivity Archives Index | Subscribe | RSS
Google
 
Web http://archives.zinester.com
Archives powered by Zinester's Mailing List Service
Details on SelfPositivity
Browse for more newsletters at Zinester's Ezine Directory
Managed by Zinester's Mailing List Management