A Columbian came to faith in Christ through reading the
Bible and soon after his conversion immigrated to America.
Here he began searching for a church where he could grow in
his newfound faith but became confused by the number of
churches from which to choose. Finally he settled on a test
for choosing the church he would make his own. He would know
he had found the right church, he said, when he sensed the
kind of love between the members that he had read about in
the Bible.
This believing immigrant’s test for finding the right
church may not satisfy everyone, but I am challenged every
time I remember his keen perception of the climate of love
among those early believers following the resurrection. A
return to that kind of affection for one another would bring
new life to any congregation.
Still, experience has taught me that there are people who
could attend such an awakened, loving church and not be
content. These problem conscious people are continually on a
search for a perfect church no matter how close to their
ideal the church they attend may be. If you are one of these
temple tourists, you will someday have to face the fact that
there are neither perfect churches…nor perfect pastors.
Some who are moderately content with their church
specialize in finding faults in church leadership. They seem
to feel it their calling to keep pastors moving from church
to church.
While speaking at a conference in a church near Chicago,
I was approached by a young couple who shocked me by saying,
"We’d like to have a spiritual awakening in our church but
we’re afraid if we do the pastor will be encouraged and
stay. We’re
hoping he’ll leave."
How will this kind of attitude hold up in judgment?
Not well, I suspect.
A.B. Simpson, the respected author and founder of the
Christian and Missionary Alliance denomination, wrote: "I
would rather play with forked lightning, or take in my hands
live wires with their fiery current, than to speak a
reckless word against any servant of Christ, or idly repeat
the slanderous darts which thousands of Christians are
hurling at others to the hurt of their own souls."
A major news magazine once referred to the seeming
necessity of pastors moving to other churches every few
years as the game of musical pulpits.
Thankfully, there are exceptions.
Some churches are filled with loving people who carry on
dynamic ministries in their own communities. There you find
fierce loyalties to the church, the pastor and to one
another. Negativism is almost non-existent. Members know
their church isn’t perfect but forgiveness flows freely
among them. They have changed their focus from faults to
forgiveness and discovered the secret of lasting joy:
trusting God and loving people.
Stop searching for a perfect church and give yourself to
making yours the caring, loving congregation it ought to be.
This simple formula will increase the effectiveness of your
imperfect pastor and you’ll not find yourself hoping he’ll
go away.