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Heartland Moms- From the Heart Newsletter, July 1, 2007

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This issue...

    • Heartland Moms Summer Reminders
    • New on Heartland Moms site
    • Direct Sales Consultants Announcement
    • Teaching Your Child To Think Clearly and Solve Problems
Local Scholarship for Single Moms- The application is available. Check to see if you qualify.

Summer Reminders

July 10- First Baptist Church of Sebring, Cafe Mom 9:30 am -11:30 am
Come bring your kids to play in the air conditioning. Bring snacks for your kids and a dish to share with the moms. Coffee and tea will be provided.

We will be meeting at the Children's Museum of the Highlands July 11 and every other Wednesday during the summer.

Every other week we are not at the Children's Museum, you can attend story time or lapsit at the Sebring Public Library.

A playgroup is scheduled for the Highlands Hammock State Park on July 11 on 9:30 am. Admission to the park is $4 per car.

Come take a field trip- July 17 Lakeland Children's Museum, July 30 St. Pete's Children's Museum

Visit the calendar for more dates.

Smart Moms Work at Home Mom Forum- If you are a work at home mom, we would love to have you join our forum. Check us out!

New on the Heartland Moms Site

Heartland Moms is providing information for all moms, not just moms in the Heartland. Please invite your friends near and far to visit our website. We would love to have their input and would love to help more moms. You can forward this message to all of your friends. Thanks for your referrals.

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Teach Your Child to Think Clearly and Solve Problems

By Arlene Harder

The need to teach the next generation how to think clearly in a search for solutions to complex issues has perhaps never been more important than it is today. As Richard Simon, Ph.D., editor of Psychotherapy Newsletter, said, "the world is not burdened by an overabundance of wisdom." But it may be that your child—with your support as a logic coach—is the one who helps us find a way out of the mess we're in.

Unfortunately, there are pitfalls lying in the path of clear and accurate reasoning, which include these common critical thinking errors:

  • We interpret information to fit our biases and assumptions because our ego has a stake in being right.
  • We think we know more than we do and can hold strongly held opinions without any facts or knowledge to support them.
  • We accept most statistics without question (unless they support the position of an opponent).
  • We tend to accept the logic of conclusions offered by authorities and experts.
  • We don't read the small print.
How do you become a logic coach for your child? Here are three ways:

Make Your Child More Important Than TV

As Lydia Bellino, author of Raising Lifelong Learners, notes, "it is through talk that children learn to"understand logical sequences, recognize causes, anticipate consequences, explore options, and consider motives." Yet families in this country spend 6 hours a week shopping and 30 hours a week watching television, compared with average daily one-to-one conversation with school-age children of 9.5 minutes for at-home mothers, 10.7 for working mothers, and less for fathers.

Challenge Your Own Assumptions

It is impossible not to share your perspective on life with your child. What you probably fail to tell them is why you believe what you do. However, if you share with her how difficult it is to evaluate conflicting points of view and if you show her that arriving at conclusions takes some effort, she will discover that there are almost always several legitimate points of view. She will realize that life is not black and white, no matter how much we would like it to be otherwise.

I call this way of teaching clear reasoning the "why, what, where, when, who, and how" approach.

Make certain your child learns the basics of government and other institutions

According to a new million-dollar survey by the John S. and James L. Knight Foundation, almost a third of high school students, upon hearing the actual text of the 1st Amendment, thinks it goes "too far." In yet another survey, six out of 10 Americans failed to name all three branches of government and fewer than one in 10 could name all four rights guaranteed by the 1st Amendment.

You will be a first-rate logic coach if you make certain your child (and you) are familiar with how our government was founded and what makes it run.

Arlene F. Harder, MA, MFT is Founder and Editor-in Chief of the websites http://www.Support4Change.com and http://www.ChildhoodAffirmations.com She has been a licensed psychotherapist for more than 20 years. Her specialties include healing imagery and reflective meditation techniques, and she is certified by the Academy for Guided Imagery. She is a co-founder of The Wellness Community-Foothills in Pasadena, California, and the author of the book Letting Go of Our Adult Children: When What We Do is Never Enough, and the upcoming book Questions to Ask Yourself When You Want Your Life to Change. Arlene can be contacted at arleneharder@support4change.com and can be found at her blog, support4change.squarespace.com



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