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CARD GIVING
GROUP
DCW Member Pennie Mills has formed
a Card Giving Group called the Ladies Blend Society, which is a
small group of kind volunteers who participate in sending a card
to recipient's posted within the group. Card's are requested and
sent for various reasons, such as, but not limited to: health/
sickness/ loss/ pick-me-up/newborn babies, etc.
For more details on this group of
thoughtful netizens and to join, please visit
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/LadiesBlendSociety/
COULD I BE
SPOILING MY CHILD?
Question:
My parents always told me to do things "because I say so!" I
promised myself I'd give my child reasons for my decisions. What I'm
finding is that it seems to encourage my five-year-old to argue. If
I say she can't have candy before dinner because it will spoil her
appetite, she insists that it won't. If I still say no, she throws a
tantrum and calls me names. I don't want to be repressive, but I
don't want to spoil her either. What's the answer?
Answer:
Who is the parent here? It seems as though your daughter is picking
up on your indecision, which simply makes her argue more. You are
probably proud of her spunk (I would be), but you're also caught up
in your own conflict to change the rigid approach of your parents.
That's hard for any of us to do. But if you honestly believe in
giving your daughter a chance to participate and understand
decisions, stick by your beliefs. However, when the decisions are
important ones, make it clear by your behavior and by warning her,
"This one is not up for argument." When you aren't firm, your
indecisiveness can be confusing to her. I think you are on the right
track, so stick with it. If she is frustrated and needs to fall
apart, so be it.
Question: We have a
six-week-old. When he cries, I go to him, even if it isn't time for
a feeding. I'll rock him a bit, and he'll go back to his crib. My
husband says I'm making him into a demanding monster. Am I?
Answer:
Not at this age. You are learning what his cries and demands mean. I
think you sound lovely and attentive. Your husband may simply be a
little jealous, and that's absolutely normal. I call it "gatekeeping."
All adults who care passionately about the same baby are
unconsciously jealous of each other. Talk to your husband about how
he's feeling. As you both learn more about your baby's cries and
needs, you'll come to see that in time he will begin to soothe
himself. But he's not there yet. Usually at about three to four
months he'll be ready to watch a mobile or reach for a toy and
become resourceful on his own. But indulge him now. It's fun!
For more situations that demonstrate
how you can avoid spoiling your child, read the complete article at
http://www.dotcomwomen.com/parenting/spoiling-child.shtml
PARTY IDEAS
An Outdoor Summer Party
A lawn, garden, a local park or even your backyard will be a
lovely place to host your Summer Party outdoors.
1. Clean Up! Whichever spot you choose, be sure to clean it up
thoroughly to avoid any hazards for your guests.
2. Make proper arrangements for ample light and mosquito repellants.
Lanterns can be hung on Tree trunks to present a lovely sight.
3. If the party is not on a very short notice, prepare in advance.
Build a Garden Pond. It would be the 'coolest' thing to happen to
your party!
4. A Garden figure such as a birdbath or a small fountain will
complete the picture.
5. You can set up a tent and make your party a 'Camping Party'. You
can also have a 'Campfire'.
6. A Game of Treasure Hunt with clues to the prize hidden under
small rocks, flower petals, tree trunks etc. will spice up the
evening.
7. If you have a musical talent amongst your guests, be sure to
arrange for a Guitar or other such musical instrument or request
that guest beforehand to come prepared with it.
8. A Gas Barbeque will be perfect for the food.
9. Use paper plates and other such disposable utensils. Place neatly
painted garbage cans to dispose these.
10. If you have a swimming pool nearby, a 'Moonlight Swim' will be
the perfect finale to your Summer Party.
BEAUTY & SKIN CARE
How to Cleanse Your Face
The solution to a glowing complexion is all around you and doesn't
cost a penny! WATER! Whether you drink it or splash it, it will
cleanse your body off toxins, dirt and grime. here is how to
cleanse your face externally.
1. Wash your hands thoroughly before washing the face.
2. Wash with warm water, not hot water, especially if your face
flushes often. Hot water will not only burn your skin but also
worsen the natural tendency to develop extra blood vessels on your
face, giving an unattractive, ruddy complexion.
3. Steam your face occasionally before cleaning it, as steam from
hot water effectively opens pores.
4. Wash your face with upward, outward motions.
5. If you live in an area where water is hard, be sure to rinse
extra.
6. Unless you are exercising frequently and strenuously or are in
a sooty environment, it is unlikely that you need to wash your
face more than four times a day.
7. Develop a routine to cleanse your face before going to bed
every night. Remember, what is not removed from your skin, sinks
into your facial skin and leads to blemishes.
8. If your skin is oily despite frequent washing, you should
switch from your cleanser to an astringent or medication. Consult
your dermatologist before doing so.
9. Do not over wash. It can oily skins to break out after
temporarily drying them.
10. Seal in the essential water after washing your face by
applying sunscreen, moisturizer or other treatment creams or
lotions.
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