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I’m not
especially fond of snakes.
No, that’s not
right. I can’t stand snakes. No, that’s still not right. I hate
them. No, “hate” isn’t right, either. What is the right word?
Loathe? Despise? Abhor? Detest? Fear?
Yes, that’s it.
Fear. I fear snakes. I fear them a lot.
I know this is
not a manly thing to admit. Men are not supposed to be afraid of
such things. After all, little boys are at least in part made of
“snakes and snails,” aren’t they?
Which reminds
me, I’m not especially fond of escargot, either.
But snakes scare
me to death. I nearly walked out of the first Indiana Jones movie
when the Nazis threw Indy and his female companion into the pit
filled with snakes (only Nazis could be that diabolical). The shot
of a snake slithering out of a statue’s mouth just about did me in.
“One more
snake,” I told my date, “and I'm outta here.”
Thankfully,
snakesmanship wasn’t a high priority with my date. She married me
anyway.
A few years ago
I was walking along a mountain road with my two youngest children
when we came upon a small garter snake sunning itself on the
pavement. I ran screaming to the other side of the road, startling
the snake into a forked-tongued frenzy and sending Jon and Elizabeth
into a fit of hysterical laughter. They thought I was trying to be
funny.
I wasn’t.
That said, there
is one thing that I find fascinating about snakes. Two or three
times each year they go through a process called “molting,” during
which they slither out of their scaly old skin and emerge to face
the world in a scaly new skin – repulsive though it may be.
According to hissologists (or whatever you call people who study
such things), snakes don’t shed their skins for aesthetics. I mean,
it’s not like they get the urge for a new outfit or anything like
that. There are important physiological factors having to do with
their growth and development. Simply stated, if snakes don’t make
this change on a regular basis they will die.
The same is true
for humans, I think. Not the skin thing. The change thing. If we
don't make changes on a regular basis, we’ll die. At the very
least, we’ll stop growing and developing, which is sort of like
dying only without the resting in peace.
That’s why it’s
a good thing that spring comes around every year. While it’s true
that spring weather can be unpredictable, with clear skies one
minute and thunderstorms the next, and spring cleaning can be
painful and/or traumatic, depending on the snap in your family
taskmaster’s whip, it is also undeniably true that spring is a
season of renewal. Which makes it the perfect time for humans to
shed the time-worn, travel-weary skin of habit and emerge to face
the world clothed in a spanking new skin of adjusted attitudes and
better behaviors. Of course, we can make those changes at any time
– not just in the spring. But there’s something about spring that
brings with it the extra vigor and vitality that significant change
requires.
And that’s just
what we need to do this spring, we need to change. We all do.
Whether it’s a minor peccadillo or a major character flaw, we need
to fix it. If it needs to be altered, alter it. If it needs to be
adjusted, adjust it. And if it needs to be eliminated, eliminate
it. But do it now. Today. This week. This spring. Off with the
old skin! On with the new! That’s how we grow. That’s how we
develop. That’s how we change. And change, said John F. Kennedy,
“is the law of life.”
For humans as
well as snakes.
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