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There were no fireworks this July 4th! There was
no need for them. We observed the holiday in the presence
of three of America??™s finest, and they had all just recently
returned home from a year in Iraq. Now, that is what I call
???fireworks!???
My husband and I were the only
???outsiders??? at this family gathering, which made us feel
very privileged. But, talk about a couple of proud and
happy parents! All five of their children and oodles of
grandchildren were together, which is something hard to
accomplish in its own right. But, this year their two sons
and a daughter-in-law were back home, safe and sound, after
serving our country. This was one joyful celebration,
without a doubt. There were no fireworks due to being
within the city limits. But when I looked into the radiant
eyes of ???Mom and Dad,??? I know I saw ???sparklers??? in shades of
red, white, and blue! We were so honored to meet these fine
young people. I had no idea how humble I would feel - like
about 2 feet tall. These kids were so young, and luckily
still had their entire lives ahead of them. We could only
thank God they had come home in one piece.
Naturally, there were a million
questions I would have liked to ask. But, they were put
aside. Knowing they had experienced things most of us can??™t
even imagine, I knew they would discuss it when the time was
right, and with whomever they chose. Moreover, the last
thing I wanted to do was make these ???heroes???
uncomfortable in any way. For now, this family was
rejoicing in being together for the first time in over a
year. With the two sons in Iraq, I??™m sure there were many
times each family member wondered if they would ever ???all???
be together again. The only discussion of the war was when
my husband and I told them how proud we were of them, how
honored we were to meet them, and we thanked them profusely
for their service to our country. We did repeat ourselves
several times, without even realizing it. It just couldn??™t
be helped. They had put their lives on the line for the
entire USA.
It was a hot day in Texas, with
humidity that made the heat suffocating. Everyone was in
and out of the pool on a regular basis. I couldn??™t help
smiling every time a family member emerged from the pool,
and yanked on a military T-shirt of some sort. Dad was
quite proud of his T-shirt that day as well. It was drab
army green, and across the front it said, ???Grill Sergeant.???
And, he had done one fine job! I didn??™t even try to count
all the different meats the Sergeant had prepared for the
festivities.
My eye did catch the plaque on ???Mom??™s???
wall??¦??¦??¦??¦??¦Bronze Star with Valor.
I knew one son had received this award,
and I so wanted to see the actual medal. Again, I didn??™t
say a word although I know it had to be somewhere in that
house. In fact, he received this award for outstanding
performance during the fierce battles raged the night Saddam
was pulled out of his ???rat hole!??? We happened to be having
dinner with his parents that December night. Little did we
know what was transpiring, or the danger he was in, as we
sat safely in our favorite restaurant.
No, there were no firecrackers or roman
candles this year, and I don??™t think they were missed. I??™m
sure the sound of silence, and lack of fire in the sky was a
welcome relief to these three young heroes. But, there
were fireworks of a different nature. The kind you
can??™t see or hear ??“ but you knew they were there. They were
in the beaming smiles, and deep in the hearts of one proud
American family. |