The fifties was a time when so much was changing in our country. Many men had recently returned from WWII, and jobs were available with so much progress starting up, and new ideas were booming everyday.  I remember well our first television set. The screen was hardly more than 12??? wide, but the wood that surrounded it was a beautiful polished oak.  The only shows I recall were ???I Love Lucy,??? ???Howdy Doody??? and the shampoo and soap commercials.

The house where I grew up was a large older home that sat on a street with a sorority house on one corner and a fraternity house on the other. We lived across from the main entrance to Michigan Sate College (now University).  My parents rented rooms out to students, and we made some interesting friends from other states. The dividends were reaped in years to follow, as many of those students stayed in touch with Mom and Dad, and would often visit them, or invite them to their homes.

During the Christmas holiday we had the house to ourselves, as college was over and the guys who stayed with us, went home to their own families.  As soon as it was ???just us??? again, we went to the tree farm and cut down a Christmas tree to take home.  The lights were the size of large eggs, and we always used silver tinsel and some homemade ornaments. We had a star for the top of the tree and after decorating it; we??™d turn off the living room lights, step back and look at the beautiful Christmas tree.  There were no gifts around the tree at that time; they usually appeared a night or two before Christmas, so not tempt young eyes and hands from checking the contents. My favorite time was early morning when it was still dark and I would creep down stairs to plug in the tree lights. I??™d just sit next to the tree in my nightgown and robe and watch the lights and enjoy the quiet of the early morning, with anticipation of what Santa would soon bring.

A trip to the city and a favorite large department store where children stood in line for a special visit with Santa was always a favorite adventure. After telling him our hearts desires, we??™d get a candy cane from Santa??™s elf and return to Mother sharing our talk with jolly old St. Nick.  Christmas in the city was thrilling. There were streets of stores and red kettles with volunteers ringing bells to donate change to help others. Even the Peanut Man appeared and would walk up and down the busy sidewalk with samples that drew people to the popular store with the wonderful smell. Clerks were dressed up, many wore bow ties, and there were a variety of special sales going on, with music that filled the air at every turn.

A memory I will never forget is the night we went to see the new movie ???White Christmas.??? We took the bus after Dad got home, and rode the 30 minute ride to the city. After looking at all the decorative window displays on the main street, we walked to the movie theatre and watched the new release on the large screen.  It hadn??™t snowed a lot before Christmas that year, and this was the week before. After the ending song ???White Christmas??? that became a favorite was sung, we left with a happy feeling from the movie we had just seen. Upon entering the outside, we were welcomed by the glitter and blessings of a fabulous Winter Wonderland! It must have snowed hard during the two hour film, and with the excitement of the evening and now the beauty of the white snow; it was like a magical scene I??™ll never forget. 

A number of years have gone by since that time, and although many memories stand out and are remembered with fondness, there is something about that night, and our family together that has remained in my heart since.  Whenever I see a rerun of ???White Christmas,??? or hear the song, my mind goes back to a time in the 50??™s when simple things were somehow the best of all. ???May your days be merry and bright; and may all your Christmases be white.???

?© Diane Dean White, 2004

Diane is a former newspaper reporter and the author of Beach Walks and Carolina in the Morning. She is a freelance writer and has been published in a number of magazines and books. She and her husband Stephen are the parents of three grown children and two grand-gals. They make their home on Hilton Head Island, SC.  You may visit her home online at

www.DianeDeanWhite.com