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Saturday, January 8, 2005

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Greetings, Ripplemakers

Maman Christine
by
Doris Fandal

Maman Christine

Way down in South Louisiana along the bayous you will find a special group of people whose ancestors came from France (and some from Spain). Some people call them Cajuns, some call them Coon A??¦but the group I am most familiar with is a group who lives along the edge of Lake Ponchatrain in St. Tammany Parish.

It??™s New Year??™s Eve and everyone is getting ready to go out and party or have friends in to party at home. But the children are all excited because tonight Maman Christine will be coming to their house to visit and leave a surprise. Who is Maman Christine you ask. Well, many years ago when my husband and I were first married, I decorated our tree for the holiday and put stockings out for Christmas Eve. Then he told me, "stockings are supposed to be put out for New Year??™s Eve." Well, maybe his stockings are for New Year??™s but mine were always for Christmas Eve so what is the difference?

He explained to me that Maman Christine is Santa??™s wife and she always comes to the homes of South Louisiana French children to leave special goodies because New Year??™s Eve is her special day to be out and about. Hmm, I thought??¦that sounds like a great idea to me but let??™s combine our cultures and do both. And so we did combine our cultures. I put out the stockings for Christmas Eve and left them out for New Year??™s Eve. We only had one small son that year for her visit but we happened to be visiting in his parent??™s home and his young sister and brother anxiously waited for their surprises. They were not disappointed either??¦.Maman Christine left candy in their stockings and I think a pacifier for Denise who was not quite 3 years old.

Then along came our own children, 1, 2, 3 and then 4 of them and each year Maman Christine came to call. She usually left a bit of candy and a small game or book and they were always so excited. Then as they got older, the neighbor children started wondering what was going on at the Fandal house. Maman Christine was not coming to visit them and even if they left their stockings out, they were empty on the first day of January.

The Fandal children were happy to explain. "You see," they said, "you have to have a South Louisiana French ancestor if you expect a visit from Maman Christine and because our mother is not French, we also get a stocking full of goodies from Santa Claus." Of course the other children all told their parents about our children??™s good luck and each of them wished they had just one ancestor who was South Louisiana French.

This week my two oldest granddaughters were talking about what Maman Christine had brought them this year and the youngest, Molly said, "well Hannah??™s daddy is French (He??™s not but she thought he was.) and Maman Christine did not bring her anything. Shelby??™s reply was "well, you have to also be Catholic." I hadn??™t thought of that aspect of it but I guess she was probably correct in that thought. The descendants of the children who are visited by Maman Christine were French and they were Catholic.

How nice it is to have such a nice family tradition and how nice it is to know that our two cultures have combined to give our children the best of both worlds for their Christmas/New Year??™s surprises. Our children were always excited by Maman Christine??™s New Year??™s Eve visit and now our grandchildren are having the same fun experience.

?© Doris B. Fandal

January 6, 2004

From the Mailbag

RE:  My 1995 Year, Carol Meeks

Dear Bob,
 
I really enjoyed Carol Meeks story about her mom, her writing, and her problem with Christmas.  As the  three strands work together--memories of her mom's death and difficulties with Christmas, her husband's healing love, and the curative power of her writing-- a really enjoyable story emerges.
                                       
meg
 
 Mary-Ellen Grisham
 

May your day be blessed

Bob Johnston

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