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???HO, HO, HO,??? boomed Dad waking the kids on
Christmas morning, and always at an outlandish hour. Like
before sunrise! The child in him couldn??™t wait any longer,
and he would ???ho, ho, ho??? up and down the hall until we
staggered out of our rooms. He??™d then say with a twinkle in
his eye, ???I think Santa has been here, I just heard
something on the roof!??? That resounding ???ho, ho, ho??? is one
of my fondest childhood memories.
Thankfully, his ???ho, ho, ho-ing??? never stopped! Once gone
from home, if the holiday was spent with my parents, one
could expect to hear that familiar ???sound from the past???
echoing down the hall on Christmas morning. It was something
very simple but it was definitely a tradition, and one that
Dad delights in to this day at 86 years of age.
To some the uttering of ???ho, ho, ho??? may not sound like the
definition of a tradition, but according to Merriam-Webster:
an inherited, established, or customary pattern of thought,
action, or behavior
I rest my case regarding memories of my first and favorite
Christmas tradition! Sadly, sometimes our old traditions
fade away, but new ones are always just waiting to be
created. And that can happen when you least expect!
The traditional hanging of stockings on the mantel ended
once we kids knew the spirit of Santa lived in our hearts.
Quite by accident that old tradition was reborn some years
ago, but this time for the ???older kids??? in the family. As if
going back in time, we again had stockings spilling over on
Christmas morning.
While doing my regular shopping one season, I was constantly
bumping into coffee mugs and cute small items. Each one
jumped out at me shouting, ???Oh, Mom would love this!???
Or, ???Oh, wouldn??™t Jerry??™s Mom like this???? It was also during
a generational gap, so no young children would be with us
for the holiday. Thus, there would be no stockings hanging
from the mantel. I finally couldn??™t stand it any longer and
started filling my shopping bags with these cute odds and
ends, including a special coffee mug for each person. Next I
caught myself buying inexpensive stockings as a means of
presenting these special treats. I could feel the spirit of
the season soar within me as my plan evolved. A Christmas
morning surprise would be such an exciting and unanticipated
event. I could hardly keep my scheme to myself.
Everyone did a ???double-take??? as they wandered into the
family room yawning and rubbing their eyes Christmas
morning. They looked like a bunch of little kids realizing
that Santa really had been there! Who else could have hung
and filled those stockings? Talk about a hit! Everyone
ooohed and aaahhhed, and it looked like a reindeer stampede
as they raced to the kitchen to wash those mugs for
immediate use.
There was no discussion of let??™s do this every year. The
only hint it would continue was that everyone asked if they
could keep their stocking. From that point on ??“ we were off
and running. And, those inexpensive felt stockings were soon
replaced with bigger and better ones. Sometimes bigger truly
is better!
Stockings for the ???older kids??? have since become
traditional, and a highlight of our holiday celebration.
With a little thought, it??™s amazing what wonderful items
have been found inside. Most are rather inexpensive, but not
always: CDs, DVDs, ties, key chains, refrigerator magnets,
personalized note pads, golf towels, perfume, gadgets of all
kinds, cash, digital tire pressure gauges, and even a stud
finder for a beginning do-it-yourselfer! As for me,
selecting the perfect stocking stuffer is far more magical
than buying that one major gift.
Depending on who gathers on any given year, lottery tickets
from different states are always buried amongst the
treasures. Last year we had a $25 winning ticket right off
the bat. Everyone squealed with delight, as they continued
frantically scratching their own tickets looking for a
bigger winner.
One year the main gift from my husband was buried deep in
the toe of my stocking. Talk about the perfect place to tuck
a piece of jewelry! I nearly fainted that morning, as he had
been very generous with gifts on Christmas Eve. He was so
pleased with himself he was almost unbearable. But, it
couldn??™t have been done without that stocking.
Now as family members pack for their Christmas trips, they
also pack their stockings. There have been a few times that
panic erupted, when someone realized they forgot an item
nearly as vital as their underwear! I keep a few spare
stockings on hand at my house ???just in case!??? After all ??“
it??™s become a treasured tradition for the ???older kids??? in
this family.
?© 2004 Kathleene S. Baker |