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Subject: Starfish: Compassion, Someone Missed Meaning, JoAnn Smotrees - October03, 2005



Monday, October 3, 2005

Make a Ripple - Make a Difference

Greetings, Ripplemakers

 

~ Compassion, Someone Missed the Meaning ~
by
Joann Smotrees

Friends,

Since we're talking 'pets'...in a country going through it's worse 'natural disaster' of property damage...perhaps human loss...and who knows how many animals...I thought this story might interest you. 

After riding out the elements of Hurricane Katrina in around the area of Metaire and Kenner, LA...just barely at the edge of New Orleans...staying at a Motel which they felt would be more structurally sound than their homes...my friends were able to return to their slightly damaged homes just 15 mins. SE of New Orleans.   However, all the necessities of life...electricity, water, food, hygiene facilities, telephone service, etc were gone.   Their family consisted of 4 households.   They could not reach 'Dad's home' to see what the damage might have been due to rising waters, but he is safe with them.   Then there is one daughter and her girl of about 12,  and his other daughter and her 2 boys, one 18, the other 7.  Actually, from the 4th household...the 18 year's father...who stayed with them so he could be with his son.   All wanted to leave the area...but Dad...set in his ways...chose to stay and the daughters could not change his mind...nor abandon him.  I pray, if there would be a next time...he will have a different insight.

They weathered the storm fairly well...but not without elements of danger and shear fear...but they're all OK.  Yesterday, they went to each of the daughters homes...I remind you, unable to get to Dad's home.  The 96 degree humid temperature was unbearable, as was the lack of facilities.  Somehow one of the daughter's still had telephone service.  So she stayed up the entire night dialing motel after motel, waiting through busy circuit periods, not getting any sleep trying to find a motel for them all to stay in.  She was finally able to find one with 2 rooms in Lakes Charles, though they needed three.  Then by chance she happened upon
Lake Charles Microtel Inn & Suites
on
Lake Street
in Lake Charles, LA
who, after her 2nd call to them, had the necessary 3 rooms she needed, due to cancellations.  She made it clear they had pets and was told OK.  They drove 5 hours today...not even stopping to eat...so they could meet commitment times and not lose their reservations.  When they arrived they were told by the staff of Microtel Inn that they had it's 'quota of pets' and couldn't take them in.  Imagine that...they didn't hide anything...they told Microtel Inn of their pets, and they accepted their reservations.  My friends have been through the worst hurricane conditions of their lives....though they know how blessed they have been to have fared much better than many.  They've had their house pets with them the entire time and fared well.  They make reservations to get away from these miserable conditions...for them and their house pets...driving 5 hours, content, though exhausted, knowing they're be comfortable for the next 3 nights...to be told 'you can't stay here' They were offered directions to an animal shelter, in spite of the otherwise, rudeness of the staff.  They 'snippily' turned down even a request to use their telephone for just a minute, being told it was for business use only...and then turned their backs to my friends, and  talked amongst themselves.

My friends just barely made it to the other motel...the one with the 2 rooms available.  Thankfully, they had not cancelled those reservations.  That motel accommodated them and their pets, as was agreed upon.  There was quite a difference in attitude...compassionate and understanding personnel who were kind and gracious.   I talked to the staff several times, and I could sense their demeanor of feeling the need to help folks out. 

Mind you now, I heard all this just minutes after I listened to the President of the United States, President Bush...tell of 'story after story' of 'kindness and generosity' extended to people of the area...all the way thorough the troubled gulf, even into neighboring states.  What happened to the 'kindness and goodness and compassion' of the people that worked at this particular motel?  They lost it...or never had it...is more my quess.  You see...I cannot imagine that anyone could not feel the despair of those coming from such a 'tangled mass of damage and destruction' that would not be compassionate and give exception to their 'quota' of animals.   Something is desperately wrong with their mindset.

Let me go a bit further, I called a gift shop...
A Daisy A Day Flowers & Gifts...and told the gentleman the situation and asked for a 'gift basket' to be delivered to them as soon once they registered in their motel.  He agreed to do so...and we worked out the details.  It was filled with snack good, drinks, cookies, anything you could imagine that kids and adults like to snack on.  When I told him of my dilemma...the motel change...he very kindly agreed to deliver it to the other location.  My friends said he was so kind and compassionate and they were so overwhelmed by the 'gift' since they had not eaten all day.  In fact the seven year old boy started to cry, he was so happy.  Both the 18 year young man and his 7 year old brother thanked me personally on the telephone.  I was totally overwhelmed with their respect and appreciation...but never so much as when the 7 year old said 'we are going to pray for you'. 

My friends...I do not understand the lack of compassion some people have.  I guess God will have his say with them 'in HIS time'. 

God Bless you and I hope somehow this story can be shared...
Jo Ann S.


PS: If not on Petwarmers...just around to your friends who can pass it further.  I want people to see the 'difference in compassion and the lack thereof''.
Let me add...one of the girls is an efriend who lost her husband in February after a 3 year battle with cancer.  I help her with 'bereavement'...so you can imagine she is hurting in so many more ways now. 

 

(c) 2005 JoAnn Smotrees

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Bob Johnston

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