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Subject: Starfish (H): (Corrected) (Contest) "The Principal" - September20, 2003



Saturday, September 20, 2003? ?  Make a Ripple - Make a Difference

Greetings, Ripplemakers


Last Saturday's "Through the Eyes of a Child", has prompted more responses than any other story in the history of Starfish!?  Though when published, it was listed as "author unknown", but I now know that the writer was our old friend, Margo Fallis.? 

Every time I have ever lost the name of a writer, it has been poor Margo!?  She and I have a new agreement - Whenever I don't know the name of an author, I'm asking if it was her. (:>)
? I've made my apologies to Margo, and now I make them to you.

Bob

The Principal
by
Nanci L. Stroupe


Miss Murianna Murray was an institution in our elementary school. Most every child was petrified of her, including me.?  I was the last of 9 children and many of them going before me had left their reputations in that school, and believe me when I say Miss Murray never forgot a thing.? 

She was a tall, very large woman with steel gray hair.?  She always wore dresses that were long and they had high necklines and long sleeves.?  She wore a bunch of keys on a heavy string around her neck and? you could hear her coming when she left her office to trod down the halls from one room to another. She wore high heels with tie strings. I had never seen that kind of shoe before but she wore beige heavy stockings with the shoes.

When we heard her coming we all prayed she would be going to another class and not ours because coming to our class usually meant trouble for one? of us. I tell? you the truth our teachers didn't have to?  use very much punishment to keep us in line. All it took was t he threat:?  "GO to the Principals office." ? That was enough to scare the devil out of us. When we got there, she would make us sit outside her office for a long time to think about what we had done and what our punishment was going to be. When she finally called us in, well, when she called me in, my bladder was about to bust and there was no bathroom privilege until we had seen the principal. Miss Murray would look over those tiny glasses of hers and the look was enough to kill.? ?  Then she would discuss, as she said, our misdeed. ? Usually the punishment was to stay after school and clean the blackboards or write sentences or our times tables.

I told? ?  you I was the last of the children in my family and unfortunately my family of sisters and brothers had left a nasty taste in her mouth.?  Miss Murray sent me home one day? because of the dress I had on. It was a lovely pinafore dress but according to Miss Murray it was indecent and I was to go home and change it. My mother was infuriated and told her my dress was perfectly fine and if she had a problem with it, then it was her problem, not my mothers and certainly not mine. I really wanted to change that dress badly but Mama wouldn't let me so I had to wear it the rest of the day under the scrutinizing eyes of Miss Murray.?  That afternoon Miss Murray called me out of class and asked me to help her sew some new curtains for our auditorium stage. I didn't know how but she taught me and for some reason?  took an interest in me from that day on. She was forever getting me to count the lunch room money or do this or that, whatever chore she had for me. I began to like this strange woman.?  She taught me a lot. She taught me a stitch called the chicken stitch for hemming. She taught me the correct way to count money, always putting the face of the paper money up. She taught me a lot of little things I would not have learned had she not selected me to help her like she did.

I was very active in school, I tried out for all the main parts in all the plays we did and Most of them I got. I played Snow White and sang Some Day? My Prince Will Come. I? also played Martha Washington in a school play and Miss Amatuli, my fourth grade teacher, used a whole can of Baby powder to make my hair look white.? 

When I was in the sixth grade I was selected to be the May Day Queen, and I was very ill with the flu. My mother had not shampooed my hair for a couple of weeks and she had it in a pony tail. One of the boys in my class hurt my feelings when he said he had never seen a Queen with her hair in a pony tail so I ran? ?  home crying and my mama used a can of some kind of cleaner for your hair to clean it dry, she brushed and brushed it and it did turn out lovely. I dressed in a beautiful borrowed white dress and was back in school ready for the May Day Parade and the dance around the May Pole. It was so pretty. We were right across the street from the Fire House so Miss Murray had Fire Marshall Hopkins to come and crown me and the boy who was May King.?  We had tall crowns made of card board and aluminum foil with fake rubies and gems of all kinds glued to the crowns, I was very proud of my crown. When the day??™s festivities were over, right before we were dismissed to go home, Miss Murray grabbed our crowns and said she was going to put them up for next year. I was so disappointed. I wanted my crown. And all those good feelings I had for her just went away like whoosh. Yes, she had been nice to me and given me privileges that others didn't have but taking my crown away was the last straw and after that I just turned against her like all the other kids. I mean one cardboard crown and I would bet you that they never used it again; it probably was put up and pushed around until it was no good to anyone anymore. Children pay attention to behavior like that. ? Maybe it was pay back for my mama telling her off that day over my pretty pinafore dress. I wonder.

Nanci L. Stroupe
Hampton, VA 23666

From the Mailbag:

Re: Through the Eyes of a Child

Hi Bob,
Today's story "Through the eyes of a child" was written by none other than talented writer
Margo Fallis. I know this, because I helped edit the story for her some time ago. Plus I know Margo and what she went through. Just thought I would put credit where credit is definitely due.
Thanks,? 
Maria Harden

(Yep, it was written by Margo Fallis.?  Every time I have every lost the name of a writer, it's been poor Margo.?  She and I have a new arrangement whereby each time I'm unsure of an author, I'm asking her about it. (:>).?  I've made my apologies to her and Now I make them to all of you.
Bob)

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Good Morning Bob
This was a wonderful story.?  Such a tale of unselfishness and obedience to God, even when it hurts.?  And such a beautiful ending.?  It is so hard being human with our tunnel vision.?  But when we love and trust God, who sees all, the ending is always as it should be.
Peace and Love,
Barbara Weymouth

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LOVED this.

Start a huge, foolish project like Noah.?  It makes absolutely no difference what people think of you!
~ Jelaludin Rumi? 

Sam Kieffer
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Wow...what a story...I wish I knew who the author was.?  It was someone with a lot of pain for a lot of years...whether the story was imagined or true.

Jo Ann S.
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Thru my tears I am writing to say what an absolutely, incredible story.?  What a way to start my week.?  Sad but wonderful.?  So glad I do believe in happy endings.?  Thank you for such a lovely story.?  I am also adopted, so I know they don't always turn out for the best, but they sometimes turn out better.?  We can't choose our parents, but we can choose how we live our life.?  Thanks again.? 
Dianne Chambers
GOD BLESS
AMERICA!!!
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This story is a WONDERFUL example of how God can turn (seemingly) tragic events to GOOD for His glory.?  We don't always get to understand WHY things happen the way they do, but this is such a good illustration to let someone read when he or she is going through a bad time in life. Perhaps we may never know how something will turn out, but that is where our FAITH must come into play and we have to trust that things will work out for the best,? 

I'd say that "aunt/mother" was a good Ripplemaker.?  I just hope her sister will make peace with her before she dies and the family can accept and give forgiveness.?  It's a hard situation.?  God bless them all.

Nancee
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Re: Tea Party

There should be more people in this world like Johnnie!!

Nancee
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I enjoyed reading this story about Loren's wife and her tea parties. They are a great way to help educate young children on manners. I've done theme tea parties for kids; Noah's Ark; American Girl with dolls and others. I think it is the ceremony of tea with all the pretty lace/china and silver we enjoy and the cute things the kids say.?  I'm glad to hear others still enjoy it; my grand-gals love them too, and it is a sweet custom we should keep alive today.
Diane White
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Bob,
This one was wonderful as usual.?  You are a wonderful editor. Can you please pass this message along to Loren Moore.? 

I thoroughly enjoyed your story "Tea Party" in today's Starfish. It sounds like you are a very good friend of Johnnie and possibly attended some of those Tea Parties.?  You express so much emotion and paint such a beautiful picture.

Are there any other web sites that you write for and is it possible to get more information about Johnnie's book or is she still writing it.
Warmest regards,
bette

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Re: Birthday Flower Attack

This one is a truly hilarious story.?  Well written and deserves a big round of applause.?  Leona

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Ginger writes a vivid story -- I could almost smell it!!?  And what a missed opportunity by "Candid Camera!"?  Good work, Ginger!
Ellie Ramirez
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Re:?  Bluebonnets, Butterflies, and Tranquility

What a joy this was today.?  It has been over 50 years since I had 4 little boys underfoot.?  And I remember those times.?  But there are many blessings along with them.?  Just this morning after taking me to therapy (after a total knee surgery 3 weeks ago) my #3 son left to go home to St Louis after spending a whole week "mom sitting".?  My sister came from Kentucky to "sister sit" for a week.?  My husband of almost 57 years was suppoed to be here for me after the surgery but God had other plans and called him home in May. Just about half an hour ago a dear 86 year old lady who lives down stairs brought me some 'pumpkin ice cream' dessert for my supper.?  Life is beautiful and I have a ton of memories to relive but the Starfish today really touched my heart and a tear ran down my cheek as I read it.?  Just wanted you to know how you touch my life.?  God is so good to his children.

Kate Mackey

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I greatly enjoyed the story Bluebonnets, Butterflies, and Tranquility, by Margo Fallis. It is a story every mother can identify with. It brings back the memory of my own desire to find those quiet moments of peace and tranquility.

What a vivid description she gave, of pulled back into reality, after a short time of luxery.
Thanks for sharing it with us.
Annette Budzban? 

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What a writer Margo is!!?  And we all need a friend like Ginny!

Ellie R.

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Friends like Ginny are a blessing.............
Donna Kay

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Blessings to you.?  Have a great weekend and a fantastic week ahead.

Bob Johnston

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