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Storytime Tapestry Newsletter The newsletter devoted to spreading love and cultural
awareness throughout the world. Special Treat – Lisa West Announcing our
newest writer for Storytime Tapestry, Lisa West become writer number 362. Please wish this wonderful writer to our
Storytime Tapestry Family. Secrets of a Storage Shed Lisa West I had been
told that longevity runs in my family but I didn’t believe it. Although my father lived into his late
seventies, most of my relatives surrendered their lives much earlier to the
usual suspects of modern grim reapers – a plethora of cancers, heart attacks,
and strokes. So I was surprised when I
received the call from Mac’s Storage Emporium located in “Say
what?” “You
heard me,” said the man whom I later learned was Mac himself. Either I pay for the last six months or he
was exercising his rights to sell the contents within, “Most likely at a
loss.” Mac may
not be the most perceptive of individuals, but he seemed to pick up that I
didn’t know what the hell he was talking about. “Lady I got your number from the
lawyer. You’re Jasmine Phillips
right?” “Yes,”
I hesitated actually wondering if this was a prank. “The
Jasmine Phillips currently living in “That’s
me.” “So,” his
voice muffled by talking with a full mouth,
“Are you paying or not?” Having met
Mac in person he looks just like I expected, but happily I find him more honest
than I would have initially presumed from a man who has those naked lady
silhouette mud flaps on his pickup. And
if it weren’t for Mac, I would have never stumbled upon the personal
effects of Dorthea Evans Rampart. After two
days, I finally was able to track down the story and sent Mac a money order for
the back rent. I knew I had heard of Turns out With each
passing generation so called ‘mixed marriages’ are less of a big deal. Of course, two, three, four generations down
from the Civil War (in the south no less) mixed relationships were a HUGE DEAL. Woe be the black man caught fancying a
white girl… for that was a lynching offense. This
explains why Dorthea Evans Rampart was not on my Christmas card list - she
wasn’t even on my radar. Really, it was
too bad since we seem to have shared similar taste and she did live to the ripe
old age of 103. Dorthea
was an aunt to my grandmother, Tessa Evans.
She was only ten years older than her niece, but they probably didn’t
share much of a friendship. I think
Tessa was considered the wild child of the family even before her fall from
grace. The one picture that I know for
sure is Tessa shows her dressed as a flapper, her face distorted in such a way
that you can practically smell the gin on he breath. Whatever Tessa’s temperament, at a very
impressionable age, she was able to charm her father into letting her go on one
of those grand tours of I’m sure in retrospect her
family, stymied over their secret scandal, would shake their heads out on their
massive mahogany porch lamenting on the stupidity of letting a girl that
unpredictable leave the continent. I
picture them doing this as they drank their freshly squeezed lemon aid while
watching black folk do the lawn work - all without irony. From what I could gather,
my grandmother managed to dump her appointed entourage somewhere in England and
ended up crossing the Channel where she was soon swooning over my light-skinned
grandfather Nathan ‘The Cat’ Phillips as he played sax in some smoky Parisian
salon. Besides a life long hankering for
black men (you know the saying) I imagine Tessa probably would have
returned to This part of the family
history is murky, after being disowned by her family Tessa gave birth to my
father in Tessa spun
so out of control ten years later she was found dead in the I had been paying rent on
Dorthea’s storage facility for a year before checking it out. I could have gone earlier, but didn’t. I had a niggling feeling that I may not like
what I would find, as if there was a slim chance Dorthea had been a grand
wizard of the KKK. My relief was
palatable when Mac turned the key and slid the door open and there was no
Confederate flag saluting me. I am a
fashion stylist (yes, I work with the stars) whose business goal has always
including expanding. Going into
Dorthea’s locker made me feel like a kid entering Disney World for the first
time. She had twelve trunks full of
perfectly preserved haute couture from the last century, among with paintings,
one a Picasso from his blue period, and other treasures. Like me,
Dorthea was a collector. Of the many au
couture I found were important pieces such as a Channel pantsuit from the 30’s,
in the style that Dietrich used to wear.
As an investment I’m sure, she also had a 1969 bridal gown made Emanuel
Ungaro that was inspired by the hippy movement. My personal favorite was the Christian
Dior ‘Bar’ suit that ushered in the “New
Look.” After
realizing the importance and potential worth of just her clothing collection I
had to grab my asthma inhaler and sit down while Mac got me some water. After recovering, I took Mac out to his
favorite diner and I made immediately made arrangements for the contents to be
moved to Dorthea
was left a sizeable income when her husband died. He had made some wise investments in Youthful
pictures of Dorthea indicate that she wasn’t the belle of the ball, but her
widowhood changed all of that. After the
second war, she made her home European capitals from which she would often fly
to all sorts of exotic locales. There
were pictures of her by the Pyramids, skiing in the As fate often has it, the
Evans family fell fast and hard during the Depression due to some very unwise
investments and plain bad luck. Stephon
Charles Evans IV, Tessa’s father, was the last Evans who was the American equivalent
of a medieval prince. He lived until
1942; still disowning his only daughter, though she was already dead, and
knowing that his surviving son, (the eldest was killed in WWI) would drink and
gamble what was left of the family fortune. I’m sure Stephon
knew that Dorthea had enough money to save the clan but for whatever reason she
didn’t interfere. Dorthea continued to
have fun while the rest of the Evans family continued their decline right to
the present where I found many of them now living in manufactured homes on the
outskirts of the town named after their, I mean our, ancestors. My white
relatives neither courted me nor made an issue about my skin color. One cousin noted, “It is what it is.” A few of them had heard family lore about Tessa
and gave me additional stories about her, but none had bothered visiting
Dorthea in the It took me
a while to go through all of Dorthea’s papers.
It wasn’t something that needed to be done, but I felt I owed it to
her. Thanks to her collection (only a
small part I sold off) I moved to a larger home and my children’s college funds
are secure. Dorthea
didn’t leave behind any correspondence.
All I had to piece together her life were unorganized pictures (not one
had a name or date attached) and fragmented documents. Some of the more interesting tidbits included
a death certificate for an infant son from 1924, verification of 5,000 shares
of Ma Bell stock, and a cancelled check from The ebb
and flow of our lives is a constant. I
feel as if I have just won big in Vegas and yet there is a sense of loss for a
woman with whom I shared tangible links, yet no relationship. In her will she left the contents of the
storage facility to my father, but having already died it went to his only
child thus leaving me to ponder questions that no one alive can answer. Racially speaking, for
myself anyway, the past has weathered enough where evidence of long denied
heritages can be examined without stirring great passions. Stepping back, I still see the faded images
of the life of Dorthea Evans Rampart, a woman I did not know and I am left to
conclude that it is what it is. Lisa West midwestocean@kc.rr.com |
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