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Storytime Tapestry Newsletter The newsletter devoted to
spreading love and cultural awareness around the world. Today’s Announcements Donations are always needed to help with
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the quality newsletter you are so accustomed to. Please note that Storytime Tapestry is a
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Donations are purely voluntary and no member should ever feel guilty for not
making a donation at this time. Today’s Stories ~**~**~ This I Believe # 20 ~**~**~ ValueSpeak A Weekly Column By
Joseph Walker valuespeak@msn.com THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE Joe Walker The
conversation was lively even though the subject was . . . well, unmentionable. Not that
there was anything unseemly being discussed.
It was a perfectly appropriate conversation between a mother and her
teenage daughter. They were talking
about . . . you know . . stuff. Lady
stuff. The kind of lady stuff about
which moms need to talk with their teenage daughters. Unfortunately,
it wasn't just my wife, Anita, and 17-year-old Beth in the kitchen last
Sunday. There was also 15-year-old Jon,
who was playing a computer game in the next room and who was therefore well
within earshot (although “within earshot” doesn’t necessarily mean he’s hearing
anything – witness my repeated attempts to get him to take out the garbage). Then
there was me. I was trying to be mature
about the whole thing. I sat there at
the kitchen counter, listening, occasionally nodding my head or offering what I
thought was a useful comment. But
beneath the surface, where no one could see, I had my hands over my ears and I
was loudly chanting "La_la_la_la_la . . " Hey, I
may be a father, but I'm also a guy. And
talking about lady stuff makes guys go "la-la-la-la-la." So we
were talking (or not, as the case may be), when all of a sudden an adolescent
male voice emanated from the office: "I have a question." Those are
chilling words to a parent, especially coming out of the mouth of a
15_year_old. Especially when he's male,
and the topic on the table is . . . well, you know. We wondered how much he had heard. We wondered how much he had understood. We wondered how long it would be before we
saw his face on the cover of the National Enquirer with the headline: "Psychopathic
Teenager Blames Parents Who Forced Him to Listen to Lady Stuff." We braced
ourselves: "What is it, Jon?" He paused
thoughtfully. Then he asked: "Can I
have something to eat?" Turns out
Jon wasn't at all concerned about the things that were being discussed around
him. He was content in his own world,
except for one thing: he was hungry. But
he knew what he could do about that, and he focused on taking care of the
situation. In many
ways, I wish I could be more like Jon. I
find myself spending an awful lot of time worrying about Things I Can't Do
Anything About. Some of them are cosmic
and incomprehensible. Others are just
silly, uncontrollable irritants in an imperfect world. Recently, for example, it's been the NBA
Playoffs. When my team won I worried
that they would become complacent. When
they lost I worried that they had lost confidence. When the breaks went their way I worried that
the victory would be tainted. When the
breaks went against them I worried that the entire NBA was conspiring to get
them. I worried
about my team a lot. But when it came
right down to it, my worrying didn’t make a bit of difference. It didn’t help them to play better or to have
a better attitude or to STOP TAKING SO MANY STUPID SHOTS AND PLAY BETTER
DEFENSE!!! See what
I mean? It just
frustrated me, and that doesn't help anyone. Which is not to say that I'm recommending a
"don't worry, be happy" approach to life. There are plenty of things about which we
should be concerned, and we should do everything we can to make positive
changes in the world. But in the words
of a well-known prayer, we need to ask God to grant us "the courage to
change the things that I can change, the serenity to accept the things I can't
change, and the wisdom to know the difference." Unmentionable
or not. ~**~**~ Poetry Corner ~**~**~ Time
~**~**~ Together
~**~**~ Turning
The Pages Of Life
~**~**~ Warmth
Readers Feedback Hi Carol This
column is really great. It's given me a lot to think about. I was a preacher
for a number of years. I gave it up because my personal life was in
conflict with my ministry. My hope has been that I might have a ministry
through my poetry. Anyway thanks for the food for thought. I read Sharon Bryant's article, "Abduction" with
great interest. Although I was never abducted as a child, and my
girlfriend and I plan on having no children of our own, I can see how
distressing it can be for a parent, especially a mother to find her child
suddenly abducted. Sincerely, David Fox Storytime Tapestry Angels Angels on earth, they exist they are out there. Angels come in all ages, shapes and sizes,
civil status, and religion. Their nature
is love and their purpose is giving to the less fortunate of this world. Storytime Tapestry angels are no exception. These angels are loyal members who have
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Tapestry can continue come to your email Here is our Storytime
Tapestry Angels: Also, I would like to thank those of you who chose to
be a silent angel and gave an anonymous donation to keep Storytime
Tapestry up and running. Clara Westerfer, Mark Crider,
Rosanne Catalano, Paula Booher, Kay Seefeldt, Mariane Holbrook, Mary Ellen
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