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STORYTIME TAPESTRY

The Newsletter devoted to spreading love and cultural awareness throughout the world

 

July 18, 2005 

 

Happy Anniversary to Mark and Debra Shiveley and have a great vacation as well.  Next time take me with you.

 

And we have a birthday wish as well for Faye Zabelsky.  We are wishing you a pleasant birthday filled with everything your heart desires.

 

I am having my first radio interview this evening at 8pm.  It is with Nicole Stevenson and then I have two more interviews on the radio to go.  This little ghetto girl is getting up in the world.  Your good wishes are appreciated.

 

 

 

Now on to the good stuff..........

 

 

Today's Queue Stories
~**~**~**~

 

 

EVER INCREASING JOY

By: Joseph J. Mazzella

     One of the most fascinating discoveries that I have made in my life is that no matter how much love you give to others or joy you share with them you still end up with more than you started with. It is a wonderful miracle that never stops amazing me. When I smile and wave at my neighbor across the road I send all of my joy with it. Yet, when I go back inside my house I find that I have even more joy warming my heart and soul than I did before. When I stop to share a few nice words with someone I meet I share my kindness with them as well. Later, however, I find that the kindness in me has grown greater rather than less. When I give my children a hug and tell them I love them I can actually feel the love flowing from my heart and soul to their??™s. Still, when I look inside myself afterwards I find that the love within me has increased once again.

     I still smile everyday at this wonderful miracle although it must drive the mathematicians crazy. I rejoice in this special law of giving that God has blessed our hearts and souls with. I thank God for the ever increasing joy, love, peace, happiness, goodness, and delight that flows back into my life whenever I share it with others. I hope too that one day the entire world realizes this glorious truth and lives it as well.

    Norman Vincent Peale said, "Joy increases as you give it, and diminishes as you try to keep it for yourself." Never stop giving your joy away then. Never stop sharing your love with the world. You will be amazed at just how much love you can bless others with. You will be delighted at just how much joy you can spread. And most of all you will be surprised at just how much more love and joy grows in your heart and soul when you do so.

Joseph J. Mazzella
joecool @ wirefire.com


Joe lives in
West Virginia with his wife

and three children. Various dogs and cats

have adopted Joe and his family for their

own. Joe enjoys his family, beauty, love

and hearing from his email friends. Joe

likes to take the time to smell the

roses and enjoy the beauty around him

as he goes about his daily life.
 

~**~**~ 

 

Should I have a Child?

Debra Shiveley 

I am the 52 year old mother of an adorable 12 year old son. Chris came along when I was 39 1/2. I had wanted to become a mother for over 30 years. I had not held back for the "perfect" time; circumstances beyond my control had determined the length of the wait. I had simply waited for my child.

If you wait for the perfect time to "have" a child, whether by birth or adoption, you will never have one. You have to look into your heart and ask yourself "Do I want a child?" A child, not a baby. Babies grow up very fast. A child: a running through the house, laughing, crying, yelling, stringing toys everywhere ... gotta eat 24 hours a day ... where??™s Santa Claus ... why can't I stay up ... I've just discovered the wonder of "poofers" (flatulence to the lay person) ... oops, I spilled my drink on the rug again ... yes, I've worn out the sofa that is only three years old ... Mom, I broke your favorite lamp ... why can??™t I jump off the roof ... I spilled the milk in the refrigerator ... what will happen if I try to flush my toy ... Daddy I used your razor to shave the dog ------ can I curl up in your lap ... let me wrap my arms around your neck ... Daddy, I love you ... can I sleep with you ... Mommy, I made you a card ... I picked some flowers for you (hope the neighbor doesn't notice) ... no one is as wonderful as my mommy ... my cheeks are so round ...my hair is so silky ... my little arms and legs are so vulnerable ... the back of my neck is so tender ... my little body so sweet ... my smile the beacon into your soul ... I make you feel like a kid again seeing through my eyes ... I love you so much.

I am yours. I am a wonder of nature. I am a miracle.

 

If that is what you want - go for it! I've never heard an adult complain about growing up poor if they grew up with love, but I've heard many, including myself, grow up complaining of no love, even if they were not poor. So, if you have it in your heart to love God's greatest gift, then you're ready. Whether you give birth or adopt, that is all that matters.

I have tried for years to meditate. I was always told to "go to a peaceful place" and there I would find serenity. I was never able to accomplish it until it finally came to me: now, when I begin my meditation, I envision my child with his arms wrapped around my neck, his little body snuggled up close to me ??“ and I am there.

Copyright D. E. Shiveley 2004

D. E. Shiveley
Merribuck @merribuck.com

 

~**~**~ 

 

ACCEPTANCE OR HARRASSMENT

WHICH ONE WILL WE CHOOSE

Sue Walsh

Why do some of us find it so difficult to accept another??™s differences when we are all different and that is the beauty that is ours alone?  

 

Why is it so easy to discriminate because of another??™s colour, religion, appearance, disability or social situation?

 

If we learn to accept our own shortcomings, acknowledge that we are all different, all have our own issues that we have brought from our childhood whether they be emotional or physical, it will be easier for us to teach the next generation how to be more accepting of others.

 

I recently heard several older guys discussing, how as youngsters, a disagreement was best sorted out by fisty-cuffs at four o??™clock.  Once a couple of punches were thrown from either side the matter was laid to rest, never to be mentioned again.  While I was trying to find some merit in what they had to say on the topic, I realised that once they are adults fisty-cuffs at four isn??™t an option.  If they have a disagreement with a business associate or a bank manager and punch him out it will only exacerbate the problem and may even lead to charges being laid.  We need to teach them a better way to deal with their disagreements.

 

It isn??™t actually the ???one-off??? disagreements that are of major concern to me and I am definitely not an expert on harassment except from the point of view of being constantly harassed as a child.  My daughter likens my childhood to that of one of a nomadic tribe as we moved every other year.  I was always the new kid at school trying to fit in.  One could have been mistaken for thinking we were on the run from the police or something equally as sinister but that was not the case.  My father just had an insatiable need for a new challenge and a change was as good as a holiday.  It did, however, leave a very unsettled childhood behind us. 

 

Not only was I harassed at school but I had three brothers who delighted in such practical jokes as hanging me upside down over the second story balcony (I, to this day have an extreme fear of heights).   Even worse they would often hang me over the toilet and flush my head and then just as often they would drag me around the kitchen (by the hair) to make a cup of tea.  On one occasion one of my brothers held my head under water until I had to gasp for air and took in a huge amount of water.  The next thing I remember was being on the side of the filthy dam we had been swimming in and him saying ???come on, come on, cough it up, cough it up???.  There still hadn??™t been any parental consequences but I think (or hope) that having to revive his younger sister after nearly drowning her had been consequence enough.  Whilst I was not impressed by all these events everyone around seemed to think they were a huge joke!  Because I survived my childhood I can say that I am a much stronger person for having endured it but harassment does take its toll.  It is not the childhood I would have chosen. 

 

Some say  ???children learn conflict resolution by fighting with their siblings in a safe environment??? but where is the line and who says when it becomes ???unsafe???.  I certainly didn??™t feel safe or protected in my home environment and whilst I love my parents and my brothers, I wish it had been different.

 

Even in their homes some allow siblings to annoy or hit each other.  What for?  If we can??™t stamp it out at home do we have a hope of stamping it out anywhere?

 

Because a child is smaller, taller, smarter, slower, disabled, or talented isn??™t a reason for them to be tormented.  It??™s the old cliche of ???lets cut down the tall poppies??? and/or to be frightened of something we don??™t understand.  It??™s actually our own fear of being inadequate that makes us fearful of people who are different or don??™t fit the ???average???.

 

So often I hear ???boys will be boys??? or ???if he punched you, don??™t tell me, punch him back??? and I absolutely cringe.   Why do we give our children permission to be aggressive or retaliate?   When will we say ???enough is enough and ???well that wasn??™t very nice of him/her, did they say sorry????  

 

How many suicides go unreported?  How many found it just too hard to go on because of the jibes and sneers at school or the practical jokes that weren??™t that funny really?  How would your child feel if someone they tormented (or even stood by while another tormented them) felt it necessary to take the only way out they could see.  (Not for a moment and I suggesting that it is the only way to deal with a tough situation.  I would hope that everyone has enough support to feel this is not an option.  Clearly some do not).

 

I don??™t have the answers to these questions and I??™m not sure anyone does but one day when there isn??™t any conflict, war, killing or suicide and we have a world of peace then we might have found some of the answers.

 

Which will you teach your children to choose?

 

Sue Walsh

Adelseal @senet.com.au

 

 

Bio

 

My name is Sue Walsh - I live in Adelaide, South Australia with my husband and two children.  I worked as a Legal Secretary for 25 years and then my husband and I started our own engineering import/export business.  I love to learn about spiritual subjects and have study many different areas.  I love to write spiritual/religious poetry and peace prayers, I am also endeavouring to complete a novel.

 

 

 

~**~**~ 

 

 

Poetry Section

~**~**~

 

Letters I'll Never Send

Debra Shiveley

 

Heartache makes no exceptions,

It knocks at every door.

Still, the pain hurts twice as much

As it did before.

 

I know our love is over.

Our life together must end.

And yet, I sit here writing

Letters I'll never send.

 

You know that I still love you,

But you don't seem to care.

You're too wrapped up in someone else

To remember the love we shared.

 

Yet, the heartache I am feeling,

I still put down in pen,

Then throw away once again

A letter I'll never send.

 

D. E. Shiveley 

Copyright 1978

merribuck@aol.com 


~**~**~

 

To Mark

Debra Shiveley

 

Are you a mere man or a god,

Sent to mortal woman as a gift?

"Beloved of the gods,

Divinely tall and divinely fair."

 

Will Zeus envy Adonis

His earthly tryst? 

Or will he just smile

And allow Elysium to rule on earth?

 

D. E. Shiveley Copyright 1987

merribuck@aol.com

~**~**~

Classified

Debra Shively

 

Wanted:

One friend.

 

Qualifications:

One face,

True blue,

Closed mouth.

 

Applicants:

Few

 

D.E. Shiveley 

Copyright 1978

 

D. E. Shiveley
Merribuck @merribuck.com

About Me:

Hello, my name is Debra Welch.  I'm 52 and the very proud mother of a soon-to-be 13 year old son named Christopher.

 

Christopher is adopted, so I have some writings on the subject, and he was born with a moderately severe unilateral clefting of the lip, gums and hard and soft palates.  He is beautiful!  Chris also has learning differences: ADD, Dysgraphia, and Executive Function and Working Memory Deficit.  He is the joy of our lives.

 

I have been writing since age nine.  My father came to visit and plopped down a pad of paper and a pencil.  "Write me a poem," he said "and call it 'Poetry Problems.'"  This is when I learned that my father and great grandfather both wrote poetry.  I was being tested.

 

I have just finished co-authoring a novel with my cousin titled "Jesus Gandhi Jetta Mae Adams," a murder mystery set in Columbus, Ohio and am starting my second novel.

 

 

 

 

Writers Feedback

 

This was interesting! (Canadian Heroes ??“ B.J. Cassady)

My mother is from Quebec, Canada!

As always I enjoy your email!

Respectfully, Anne

 

 

Carol - The Great Beyond

 

    I felt like a pioneer crossing the wilderness as I read this one my friend.  I think you are right there too.  Writing something new is like exploring a new continent in our minds.  Wishing you every joy, Joe

 

Congratulations to Sharon for her accomplishments... kay

 

An inspiring analogy here Carol.  The muse takes us into hidden pastures and often through the woods and to who knows where.  Great thoughts!   

Congratulations to Sharon Bryant I enjoy her stories and can relate  to some of them.

 The story of the Power Struggle was hilarious but as my old grandmother always say there is more than one way to skin a cat so i guess the gentleman must have learned from that old school too.

 

 

 

Kay Seefeldt ??“ Daddy??™s Power Struggle - Love it, Sounds like Yankee Ingenuity.  The power company didn??™t have a chance.         Louise

Announcements

 

To all my friends and pet lovers.  To day I visited a bit with my good friend Karen Read of the best jewerly store you will find any where.  She and husband Steve has it located in St. Joseph, Missouri. Now they happen to has a Cracker Jack of a right smart son who is a veterinary on the order of James Harriot.  Karen told me something I didn't know.. and therefore I am passing it on to you.

 

NEVER LET YOUR PET HAVE  EVEN A TASTE OF HAM. IT CAN BE BAD, VERY BAD.

 

Tinker and Poo always said BEEF, that is what for DINNER. Little Girl is getting that way too.

 

I think Little Girl was looking in the diamond neckless showcase.  Like all girls.  Yes she was wecomed in the store.

 

Bill

 

Hearts With Soul New Book
Tinker & Poo, The Boys Write

Bill Walker tinkerpoo2000@yahoo.com
Purchase, "The Boys Write"

 

 

Prayer Requests and Updates

 

Will you please pray for me and my family? I had been delivered a very bad dose of news today from my doctor. I may have a bone disease that is rare or the beginnings of liver failure based on repeated lab tests that show an enzyme in high levels in the liver. I don't even drink darn it. I am hoping it is the bone disease as it is treatable, but this is a very hard time for me. I knew this was coming, sort of psychic knew it, but it didnt make it any easier. Keep me in prayer and if you could go to Leif and ask for the healing circle on my behalf and all the MandM group to send energy and prayers my way I am concerned... I do have reason to be and I don't want a transplant. I would really rather deal with bone pain than that I am only 38 and this has me freaked out as I went through so much already, but I did have a vision by August something awful would happen to me.... I go back on Aug. 13 for a follow-up. I will get more indepth tests this week....I dont care who knows. I need all the prayer and energy and good wishes I can now. My cheering sections need to be loud for me now especially.
Yes ppl can send me PMs or emails. I dont care what and I will reply if I can, as soon as I can. I am just in aweful pain and very tired and anemic now.

 

I am very concerned about my grandsons One is named Walter Jr. and the other is a step-grandson named Dwayne Jr.  They are both young men of early twenties.  The youngest Dwayne has two children by two different woman and is living with another woman. Little Walt is in a sexual (in and  out) relationship with a third woman. He has one child with another.  He has physical custody of his child.  All of the girls (women) are unsaved and very into a casual sex thing. 

 

The boys are both from broken homes and had very sad situations in their young lives of lots of turmoil and troubles.

 

They both were raised in Pentecostal backgrounds and know what is in the word of God about things pertainig to living right and doing right.  I ask that you please hold them all up in prayer to give their selves to God and let HIM help them get their priorities right.

 

Also have several grandchildren, three step and two others.  All were taken to church by me and sometimes their folks  but so mixed up in their way of thinking and doing.    They just need Jesus as a personal Savior and deliverer.  There is several small children  all involved in these marriages and broken homes. 

I do so appreciate your prayers and know that our God certainly does work miracles and will deliver and save even to the utmost.

 

Thank you for praying the girls names are Jamie, Amanda, Amanda again  and Randa. Tanya and Tiffany.  The fathers  and husbands are Steve for Jamie and two children, Brad, (boyfriend)and two little boys, Joel for Amanda and he has two little children from a former marriage, Randa 's I am not certain of the name and no children, Tanya's is Mike and they have three precious little girls and Tiff's is Gary.   They have two children a boy and a girl and Tiff has two other children by two other fathers.  What a terrible mess.   May God have mercy on us all and help me please to hold them up in prayer before God for a mircle in their lives soon.  Thank you so much  Leona

 

 

Hi all, my husband Dennis got home from the hospital after 5 days. They think its shingles (without the rash) he is still having allot of pain. They have him on a few meds and we just have to wait it out. Today is not a good day for him as the pain is bad and he started vomiting again. Please continue to keep him in your prayers. Peace & love, Rose

 

This is a prayer for Carol Donnelly & her family.

 

Father God in heaven I come to you in prayer to ask that you reach down your

almighty hand and touch Carol Donnelly and her family, father show them your

awsome powers.You know their needs. It is in the name of Jesus Christ the

Holy Son that I pray. Amen Amen Amen!

 

 

Walking In His Loving Light!

 

Richard & Jackie Sims

 

 

SENIOR WRITERS

 

Agee, Vance;  Apted, Violet;  Baker, Kathy;  Batt, Al;  Berry, Nell;

Boda, Ginger;  Bryant, Sharon;  Buhagiar, Victor; Cassady, B.J.;  Crider, Mark; 

Deming, Barb; Goodier, Steve;  Harris, Kathy Anne; Hunt, Sharlette; 

Jacobson, Gary;  Kiser, Roger Dean; Kerens, Claudia; Jenkins, Pamela;

Liles, Norma;  Mazzella, Joe; Ojeigbe, Georgewaters;

  Petry, Dianna Doles; Roberts, Susan;  Shaw, Bob; Sims, Richard; Swarner, Ken; Vaknin, Sam;

Walker, Bill;  Walker, Joe; Warner, Gorden K;

Whirity, Kathy;  White, Robert;

 

 

 

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Moderator: Thelma Hartselle-co founder

Moderator: Clara Westerfer

 

 

 

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